As most of you know, I have had many run in's lately with people I know making comments about how I look. I was just curious which matters more to you....
Looks
or
Personality?
EVERYONE has different opinions about this subject so I just wanted to hear everyones, and see if from their point of view.
P.S. Be honest. :)
2007-06-01 08:17:50 · 24 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well to be honest personality is a key to a womans beauty...if she has a good personality and a good sense of humor she doesn't have to be the most gorgeous person in the world the person that she really is what makes her beautiful....looks comes second...but first its personal opinion....well thats view on it....
2007-06-01 08:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly--my first impression is based on outward appearance. Normally this has less to do with physical attributes than it does with how the person chooses to 'package' themselves. I've known only mediocre looking people who dressed fashionably, smelled great, excellent grooming and wonderful smiles that I found much more appealing than perhaps someone who was physically drop-dead gorgeous, but didn't bathe, had a bad attitude and dressed shabbily. (Not talking designer clothing, but clean, neat, no stains, no holes, etc.)
So as far as first impressions go--it's definitely what I see that has the most impact.
But then there's the personality factor. The best looking guy I dated also happened to be the worst boyfriend I ever had. Coincidence? Maybe. Conceit, however, is not an attribute I find appealing. (Which can be mistaken for confidence if one isn't careful.)
In the end, I married a great guy who had a fabulous personality, ethics and morals that matched my own and while he probably wouldn't get picked up for a GQ ad, he's very handsome to me--especially as he get's older. (He's aged very well :) )
Which brings me to a quick final thought. It seems to me that what is on the inside eventually impacts what is on the outside. Those who have negative personalities often end up growing less attractive as they age--and vice-versa. Funny how that works, now that I think of it.
Good question!
2007-06-01 08:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by chocowriter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality
it does not matter how many degrees,(in eduction) how beautiful, how rich, successful a person is.
the point is what kind of a person are u made off.
are u a sarcastic person
are u a jerk
are u a bully
u Egg o is so high that wind can not pass through
are u a an ***......
so u see all it comes to is do u have a heart with compassion and understanding .
they are people with a whole lot of everything, but inside they are nothing but u know what, empty inside no feelings no emotions, and no logic
2007-06-01 08:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by not fair 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you first meet it is looks. So you do always want to look your best. but overall it is personality.
Have you ever seen a guy and he is the hottest thing ever but once you actually know him hes not so hot and you wonder what you were thinking.
Personality can really change if a person is hot or not. Some guys are real ugly but once you get to know them they're pretty cute.
So definatly personality even though it seems like everybody is always telling us girls how looks are all that matter. its not true.
2007-06-01 08:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality, No Doubt!
I swear I was watching beauty and the geek tv show and I swear after knowing the nature and personality of some of the geeky guys, they actually started looking really cute, hot and sexy to me just because the way they are, not because they changed their looks or anything. Even though in the beginning I was thinking other wise.
but I think may be you just went thorugh a major change in your looks that why you're getting comments...Its normal....
I say that One's Character and Personality is their beauty.
its up to you to believe or not....
2007-06-01 17:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tiku P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks matter, know matter what people say.
However, for me, What's the point of looks if their is no personality to go with it.
People with personality but no looks, will grow on you and they will become beautiful to you.
2007-06-01 16:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most unattractive person can be beautiful if they have the personality. Look at that girl Paris Hilton, alot of men find her attractive but I bet they wouldn't want a relationship with her.
2007-06-01 08:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by For Da Be Dan- Liza p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality. I hired a guy once that everyone else thought was weird looking and they were suspicious of him (normal features but wore only black, had longish hair, odd tastes). I saw something else. He ended up working there for about 10 years and the day I hired him he thanked me profusely for giving him a chance. It was his first real job. Never regretted my decision
2007-06-01 08:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Book0602 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confident, somebody's visual attraction does count. yet despite in the event that they are no longer completely ideal, in the event that they have a terrific character, they seem cooler than a warm stud it relatively is an a**hollow. And yea my visual attraction concerns. i won't be able to help yet constantly sense self-wakeful approximately my looks. possibly it relatively is cuz i'm a youngster! ha who's established with..
2016-11-24 22:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, looks. But for a long term relationship it's better to have a strong personality over drop dead gorgeous looks.
2007-06-01 08:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋