hate it so much. I mean they aren't called your friends when they say mean and untrue things about you. they are called so-called friends (they aren't friends). And that they are just jealous sometimes cuz maybe they wish they had your confidence or whatever you have.
What do you think?
What would you do if they did this to you?
2007-06-01 08:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I wouldn't hang around them anymore. I agree with you. Usually, when a supposed friend does such things, they are jealous. It doesn't have to be just your looks, but it can be a lot of things. Like, how nice or friendly you are-your home life, and so forth. Or, it could be that they want the attention to make themselves feel better about themself. This was a hard lesson for me to learn. My "best" friend had been going behind my back for years before I found out. I was amazed to find out all that she had done.
A true friend, likes you for who are you-both good and bad and will stick up for you...Try to find people like that to be your friends.
2007-06-01 08:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Hestia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think your are just like the rest of us cause we all have a friend like that. I think your are finally seeing the big picture. There is nothing you can do except stay away from this so called friend or just accept that they are always gonna be like that and just love them anyway if your friendship is that important. If not they are just another body walking down the street and you don't have to give them the time of day..........
2007-06-01 15:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They wouldn't even be called 'so-called friends' - they'd be called two faced pr|cks in my book. But that's just me.
Judging by what I just said there, you can assume I really don't like people doing that to me. But I don't care if anyone tells lies about me behind my back. At least I would know the truth.
2007-06-01 15:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all do things we regret. I know I've said mean things behind my friend's backs, and when they found out, they confronted me and we talked about it, and I apologised and now we're better friends. I think you should approach this friend and ask them why they would say bad things about you. If they apologise, then I would keep them as a friend, but if they don't apologise, act defensive, or deny it, then they aren't worth your time or effort. I hope everything works out for you!
2007-06-01 15:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by allison b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well frist of all there not being a ture friend to you so somethign has to be something wrong so ask them if u can talk to them quick or call and ask if u did something wrong or what's wrong with them and if the're saying stuff about you about whatevr there teaseing u about mabe there jelling
2007-06-01 15:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by briana.wruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people are so insecure that they try and play both sides so that everyone likes them. Also, maybe this friend is just a b! at any rate, definitely not trustworthy.
2007-06-01 15:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferfreels 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea I dont waste my time with ppl like that..I just tell em to f**k off. And that's why I only have two ppl that I actually call my friends.
2007-06-01 15:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Shanna's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just hating.Find some loyal friends,sometimes you have to be really picky when it comes to friends.
2007-06-01 15:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the beotch like a bad habbit...why be around someone who puts u down? obviously they think that they are too good for you when really the opposite is true.
2007-06-01 15:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually do what's called "friends' cleansing"....getting rid of the friends who aren't helpful and the like
2007-06-01 15:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by ωнєη уσυ ѕмιℓє уσυ мαкє мє ѕмιℓє 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋