if he is honest with them about it, do you think he's an alright guy?
I'm still trying to decide. Have encountered guys who lie to get lots of girls and I think they are scum. But the honest ones a.) do they exist and b.) are they alright guys?
Why? Why not?
2007-06-01 06:33:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Emotional problems and an excellent source of STDs.
2007-06-01 06:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes some guys are honest about their sex life and are interested in nothing but uncommitted casual sex.
And there also a few women who are interested in the same thing.
If every guy you ever been with was totally honest with you would you still like guys?
It sounds like you know what you want in a partner, so hold out until you get what you want. Any one who lies to you for sex is scum. And any guy who had dozens of past partners is usually some one with ton of baggage ( and probably an STD ). So what does it matter if he's alright or not? He's potentially a lot trouble.
2007-06-01 06:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by brianjames04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That,s why I look for real attraction based on genuine honest emotions, not some mating game ritual that becomes a political power game. If the attraction is real on both sides, there.s never any reason to play around doing the feather dance. I am not a mind reader and I can only go along with whatever attitude is displayed, so I tend to reign in immediately if I get any negative response -I am not expecting an easy ride but I sincerely believe a woman has the right to choose and should be refined and polite enough to consider my feelings as well. Not all men are armour-plated Lothario fuelled by challenges or a need to conquer or a desire for quick thrills at any cost.
2016-05-18 21:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest is always the best policy and if a guy is upfront about what he does to everyone involved and they chose to stay in that relationship then who's to say that he is a bad person? I have lots of friends male and female who sleep around alot and are honest about their escapades and they're good people. They just don't want to be tied down.
2007-06-01 06:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by 1 Luv Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. If, this what you like in a guy, then fine. All he do is be truthful up front about his lifestyle. If, this not something you agree with then it your turn to be truthful and say so. Do not hear this and say; it OK, then later whine about what the guy do!
Myself, I am a one woman man and expect the same from the woman (One guy gal).
But, I have known people who were "Swingers" this what they liked and expected from each other.
2007-06-01 06:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you say to him if he told you, "I drink a lot, smoke a lot, and am totally addicted to drugs...but at least I am honest about it? Oh yeah, and I'd like to do drugs with you. And I just did them over at Katie's house. And Jenny's. And Sarah's." Would he be an okay guy then???
2007-06-01 06:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been with a few upfront guys...or at least guys who i have seen there behavior and know what they are like...
i think i mainly play guys...and really i dont tell them everything...i do warn them, that i might just hurt them at some point....i'm kinda a bad girl like that.
2007-06-01 06:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a.) yes
b.) I've had flings with girls that knew what the deal was and there wasn't a problem afterwards and we stayed cool with no hard feelings or grudges.
2007-06-01 06:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by aalbe003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's honest with you about it, you'll be even more mad. Common since gurle, use it.
2007-06-01 06:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by omarigirl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares. find a guy who is just into you.
2007-06-01 06:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋