forgive daniel?
2007-06-01 04:51:52 · 22 answers · asked by havingfun 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television ➔ Soap Operas
Idk I understand her being upset about the porn b/c its not just dirty videos, he's a member of a website where people basically go to possibly meet people to hook up for sex and she's just unsure of whether he's cheating on her or not..not only that, but the lies on top of that..i say forgive him b/c i like those 2 together..he has to come clean and tell everything and also get help.. i think she should separate from him for a good while and make him earn her trust back
2007-06-01 16:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by beautyful_brown_eyez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between women of today and your mom or grandmother is "effort." Women don't put the same effort and energy into a marriage the way they used to. It is too easy to cut and run for divorce as it is to make attempt to work through something. This is an admittance that wedding vows are just as meaningless to women as you guys accuse them to be for men.
I am not saying be stupid, blind, niave, or dumb either. A person should only get so many chances to hang themselves and its obvious the guys needs help. All Lilly has done is yell and scheme, but nothing along the lines of trying to help her husband. When I love someone, I attempt to help them, if they refuse my help, well now its time to cut the hanging rope I mentioned earlier. Is amazing how people still confuse marriage with dating.
So the solution to a great relationship is run at the first time roads no longer lead to "happily ever after."
2007-06-01 07:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if he keep lying to me. He keeps trying to save Amber's a s s! But for what. He should known up front that Amber was going to trouble. If I was Lily I would have kicked him out of the house too, because she ask for the truth and he still has not told her yet. Grow up Daniel. He keeps telling more lies to cover up the lies he already has told.
2007-06-01 06:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ash Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is making a step wise progression from porn site to emailing girls on the web to maybe meeting and having sex with them? Then an affair, he begs forgiveness, she forgives him...then it starts over again because it worked once didn't it? Kind of like a sex addiction...which is similar to any addiction (alcohol, drugs, gambling)...addiction has a genetic link...so that makes it hard to stop. If she lets it go, it will only continue to get worse. He DID also have a drinking problem before this also...so addiction is in his nature.
2007-06-01 05:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking at porn is no big deal to me, it would have been the lying that would be the last straw. If I knew my husband was e-mailing someone about hooking up with them, I'd be *issed. If he continued to do it after I confronted him, then I'd be better off without him. There's many men out there who respect their wives and can admit they have a problem, then get help for it before it ruins their marriage. I'd much rather be with someone like that rather than someone who continues the lies.
2007-06-01 07:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the whole porn thing, I think Lily made a really big deal about it. I would have forgiven him for that. But the message in his phone with another woman's breast, yeah I would be upset about that and all the lying that he is doing. She has a right to be mad about that.
2007-06-01 06:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ProudMomma♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband were to come to me and say I have a porn issue, or if I catch him with naked pics and he owns it, I can work with that. I cant work with all of the constant lying and also, if you notice, Daniel and Amber are both blaming Lilly.
Daniels comment to Kevin were "I wish they hadn't invented cell phones with cameras." that's not owing the issue, that's blaming. Daniel is not man enough for me, I don't like men that blame.
Lilly needs someone brand new.
2007-06-01 06:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that if it was just porn, then yes he could be forgiven if there were NO MORE lies. Daniel has lied about who the naked pics are of, lied about where he got them, lied about so much, that is what ISN'T forgivable.
Porn alone is something you can get over, the lying and sneaking is what you can't.
Should she forgive him? HELL no. He lied about something as small as porn. That just proves he can't be trusted.
2007-06-01 04:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As we saw before Daniel got caught.....one thing leads to another.....so if he hadn't have gotten caught, chances are, he would've kept going.....so no, I wouldn't, were I lily, forgive him. I'd dump him and find someone who treated me better.
2007-06-01 05:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, not if he kept lying and denying that he had a problem. An addiction needs to be treated. If he refused treatment, then he gone.
2007-06-01 16:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋