Please no rude answers - my husband and I have been married for quite some time. A few years back I found shemale sites on his history page - here and there I have found them again when he hasn't erased history. He is very manly and doesn't act gay and swears he just looks there for fun - but I would be more comfortable and I saw it was just "girls" he looked at for "fun". What should I think? What is the fascination??
2007-06-01 03:54:11 · 10 answers · asked by Madis M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I love shemales especially Jeffree Star he is transgender though...obviosly he is bi or gay......do these pics have D*ck in them if not then he may just like how they look...because they have this fake barbie look to them which is all good. You don't have to act femminent or have lisp to be gay/bi....For you it's better that he looks at shemales then just men...it kind of means he likes women.....don't worry let you husband be a shemale lover....
2007-06-01 04:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this question on Y1A before (are you sure you aren't the same one who asked the first time).
You husband is obviously curious about it.
Fantasies/fascinations are, in general, harmless unless someone becomes obsessed by it and looks to turn some of it into reality.
Continue to talk to your husband, work out his "fun" and maybe you might understand why. Maybe there is something you can do to help him with this. Perhaps some role playing in which you wear a strap-on to create the illusion.
BTW - contrary to popular belief a man acting manly doesn't mean anything. Gay men can act as manly as any straight guy supposidly acts (I am not casting aspersions on your husband).
2007-06-01 04:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its like the train or car crash theory. once you see it you cant look away. if he is simply looking and not joining up as a member to the site then its prolly harmless now if you catch him jerkin his gherkin to it then you might have a problem. there is a wealth of weird porno on the net most of it is stuff people just look at because they cant believe it. its a certain level of curiosity in the human mind that drives us to want to look. i think everything is fine. if your husband says hes not gay and he loves you and doesn't hit you i think you got it pretty good hope that wasn't to rude or anything
2007-06-01 03:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner says the same thing. Personally it makes me sick. I questioned his sexuality and he swears black and blue that he is straight. I found it a couple of years ago and got very upset with him and he told me he was curious and it would never happen again. I caught him a couple of months ago and he told me that it wasn't a big deal, but I disagreed and told him he had to go get some counselling to sort out his sexuality issues. I don't care if he is bi, but I just need to know.
I can't understand how a man wants to look at a man with breasts if he isn't bi or gay, surely it should repulse him?
I see that you don't accept email, but if you want to discuss this further, send me your email address. Good luck, you'll need it.
2007-06-01 04:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ii think you need to move on. I realize you have been married for some time to this man. But, a man who looks online for porn is looking or has already found something on the side. I think it's gross what he is looking at. I have been with my husband for almost 20 years now and if I found out he was looking at that, he would come home to packed bags and an airline ticket to the other side of the country.
2007-06-01 04:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just talk to him and then see what happens again. He might have a fetish for that kind of thing. Men have very weird fetishes sometimes
2007-06-01 04:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shawna E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense sweetie yet maximum adult males seem at porn. it relatively is not because of the fact he loves you any much less or which you're much less captivating than the girls on there...it relatively is only of their nature. So...in case you get disillusioned or "freak out" or despite you do once you seize him, he will in basic terms do it at the back of your back or once you're no longer around. meaning he will have a sprint secret ..... in case you're pleased with that, then save making him uncomfortable once you seize him watching porn and that stands out as the case. possibly he will locate someplace to sneak off to and watch it peacefully...who know? possibly you additionally can watch it with him...you may relatively get excitement from it. You adult males are married. i do no longer probably see the massive deal. as long as he would not act on it with somebody else...boys would be boys, enable them to have their toys. only my humble opinion.
2016-11-24 21:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about it. As other people have said already, men have some really odd fetishes.
2007-06-01 06:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe he just likes that stuff. some guys have wierd fetishes, they don't have to be gay for that. if it really bothers you, talk to him.
2007-06-01 03:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, and be prepared
just thinking can lead to the wrong conclusions
2007-06-01 03:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by firechap20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋