i'm female. i'm confused whether or not i'm bisexual?? i am attracted to guys. i have never been attracted to my girlfriends or any girl i know. yet i love watching videos with hot girls.
2007-06-01 00:29:25 · 3 answers · asked by smashmouth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What I've learned from my own experience is that defining sexuality is complicated. Some people claim that they have just a physical/sexual attraction to one/both genders. Others have an attraction to both sexes but can only be in an emotional relationship with one. I'm still trying to figure myself out. I've decided that sexuality is really up to the person.
You don't have to be sure if you're straight or bi, or even lesbian. You don't even have to decide between any of them. Just go with what you're comfortable with. Its okay if you can't decide. Don't worry too much about it.
Just explore for a bit. Its going to be the only way you'll be able to discover the answer you're looking for. Just remember that you don't have to be limited to straight, bi, or lesbian/gay. Sexuality can be much more complicated than that and you are the only person who can decide what that is.
2007-06-01 05:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually aroused by both guys and girls then you are Bisexual (just by definition of the word).
That being said - there is nothing that says a female who is bi can't be more attracted to guys than girls (or vice versa).
2007-06-01 09:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are potentially bisexual, if such videos turn you on. Whether you choose to turn that potential into reality is, of course, your decision, as it should be.
2007-06-01 07:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Skepticat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋