what do i do? im a lovely,young,intelligent beautiful girl doing my law degree,which is stressful enough,amongst other things,im living with an older guy, J. S. Clark, who hits me, kicks me and subjects me to domestic violence and doesnt apologise, he takes advantage of me and takes me forgranted.he has been married twice and he has four girls who live away,or with thier mum, thats long before i even knew him.(nothing to do with me)
what should i do or what would you do if you were with such a man who has no concience and treated you like this?you would think that him having four daughters he would at least have a concience that what goes around comes around.
2007-05-31 22:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by no1queenofcharm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How would he feel if his daughter's boyfriend or husband hits his own daughters and treats his daughters the way he treats me.how would he feel?
2007-06-01 03:08:28 · update #1
Leave!!! Pick up and get as far away from him as you can. Get in touch with the local battered womens shelter. They can put you somewhere safe.
2007-05-31 22:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people treat you in such a way you start to believe what they say & how they treat you is warrented, that is the furthest from the truth. NO one deserves to be treated as such. Get out of that relationship as quickly as you can no matter how difficult it will be. You will save yourself further heart ache & possible physical injury by running out of there as fast as you can & dont look back . You deserve much better.
Here are some internet support groups that might help you deal with the issue your going through & leaving him.
http://www.safe4all.org/news/item?item_id=41211
http://www.snbw.org/
You could also call information in your town & get the local support & help groups.
Good luck.
2007-06-01 05:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear queen....no doubt this man was abusisive in his previous relationships and those women did the right thing...they got out! Its doubtful he will change his ways even for you. You sound like a loving caring woman who doesn't deserve a life like this. If you have any selfdoubts or concerns visit..."the assaulted women's helpline" site. I am a volunteer with this organization...and they can offer good advice and answer your questions.
Chances are if you remain with this guy the violence can and will get worse.
(Listen to a song I wrote on this subject at.....MySpace.com/hankbarry)
2007-06-01 05:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by newfy hank 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are that beautiful, what are you doing putting up with all of that? I'd have been gone the first time he disrespected me. You have the upper hand. He is the older man. Use your brain and get out!!
2007-06-01 05:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still there stupid the first time it happened you should have left but you didn't which is the same thing as telling him it is OK so now it is your fault for being an enabler His 2 wives left him and now you should too
2007-06-01 05:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is beginning to border on abuse.
2007-06-01 05:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Always Curious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god knows, if you have so dislike what the hell are you doing with him?
2007-06-01 05:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by sristi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋