2007-05-31 15:15:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Should I tell Him I am not happy and I need more making love? Do you think he would freak out! He is a preacher!
2007-05-31 15:17:09 · update #1
MEN~ What would you think if your wife, gf told you that?
2007-05-31 15:19:09 · update #2
Am I being a bad women thinking that? Is it a SIN?
2007-05-31 15:20:17 · update #3
I am 35 now! ANd I think womens needs and wants change! I am needing more.
2007-05-31 15:24:14 · update #4
He is a Pentecostal Preacher!
2007-05-31 15:39:05 · update #5
no.... He is to fullfill all your needs... tell him you need him to lie naked with you.....something like that...lol.... have fun....
2007-05-31 15:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Since he is a preacher there are passages in the bible that says men honor thy wife as well and come onto her with her needs. Find that passage and print it and put it over his bed so he can see it every night. Then bargain for which nights are yours and which are his and go from there.
I personally like giving each other 6 love coupons to be redeemed however see fit with no questions asked..
But in the same token here, why did you marry a Man of God if you thought might become an issue. It had to be from the start I suspect.
2007-05-31 22:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Preacher eh? I am assuming he is a protestant minister of some sort. I assume he subscribes to "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." (Eph. 5:25) I interpret that to mean that as Christ gave of himself totally for the church, so a husband should do the same for his wife. I think that means he should meet every need you have. Christ met the church's needs, after all. Being a good husband is the hardest thing a man can do. I tried and failed. Help him by understanding and letting him know that you need him and you will help him to love you like I described above. It will mean a short term swallowing of pride. It's hard as a man to put your wife's needs totally ahead of yours, but it will work better in the long run.
2007-05-31 22:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chairman LMAO 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You will get nothing done unless you talk directly to him and let him know what you are feeling! We all have issues we have to deal with communicating with your husband is one of them regardless if he is a preacher or not he is still a man right? Work together, you are partners not enemies you two are bonded in matrimony for your marriage to remain in tact you need to communicate and love each other that means dealing with the not so easy issues of life. Good luck!
2007-05-31 22:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and be a 'bad' woman....... tell him of
your 'needs' !!
Every man should 'Honor' their wives and 'their
needs' !!
Old saying....... "If momma ain't happy, no one's
happy" !!! Remind him of that........ my wife does !! ;-)
She has no problem in letting me know if I'm slipping
in the 'husband duties' !!! :-)
IF he wants to start using the Bible or 'helping' people
as an excuse remind him that the 'Family' is to come
first .
Eph 5:22-33
1st Corin 7: 3 - 5
Minister or not.... a mans' first responsibility is to God....
his wife second..... and all others are down the line.....
but God 'intended' for man to keep his wife 'happy' !!!
Good Luck !!!!!
PS : NO... it isn't a sin !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-31 23:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course you deserve to be loved right! Many preachers have several children so, obviously, they are making A LOT of love! lol Just tell him, you may be pleasantly surprised!! :)
2007-05-31 22:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by She's on fire! 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
preacher or not, he's still a man, I think he would want you to tell him, no offense but he's still got testosterone and all men like a woman to want them
2007-06-01 15:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, yer being normal, Amy! Yer hubby's a preacher, but he's not celebit, is he?. I mean you have kids, right? Tell him you wanna work on a couple more!!! lol
2007-05-31 22:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by chris j 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
let'em freak out,just because you're his wife doesn't mean that he can't make love to you-for better or worse and this is the better part of your marriage.
2007-05-31 22:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by rebelady28379 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yesss tell him!! if ur in a good relationship then u 2 should be able to tell each other everything! so i say go ahead and tell him how ur feeling
2007-05-31 22:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell him... do him... i'm not much of christian, but man is the only animal that has s*x for pleasure. we're like that for a reason.. maybe 'cos god said so? who knows, your husband may surprise you!
2007-05-31 22:50:54 · answer #11 · answered by closeinphilly 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋