and some do not realise the damage they do with there answers, why do they do it, i feel worse than before
2007-05-31 12:34:04 · 22 answers · asked by pringles 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am sorry that you feel that way, people that say mean things only do it to make them selves feel better. Try not to let it upset you it's just not worth your time.
I wish you all the best!
2007-05-31 12:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Day 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to realize that not everyone is out to help, some do it for their own entertainment and they do things that may be cruel and thoughtless.
while some may do it to help, they are blunt and are not very diplomatic, they may think that it's the truth and sometimes truth hurts and that you'll be a better person for it.
some times they may have a point to make , but you just can't see it.
others may have the opinion that if you can't take the heat , then stay away form the fire.
it's very simple, always take it with a pinch of salt,
when you look at the answers, think of how it relates to your question, be honest with yourself,
if there is a point, then improve on it, if not then just ignore it.don't sweat it and chill out, always look at the humor in the situation.
God bless,
gabe
2007-05-31 20:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by gabegm1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you expose yourself to a mob, do not expect meek answers.
Just hold up a filter and remove the crass answers.
2007-05-31 19:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by ffordcash 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO OFFENSE BUT, i think you just need to get some thicker skin, why care what a stranger thinks? they're just a stranger who doesn't know all the great qualities you hold, they don't know you're burdens so why bother weighing their opinion so carefully?
2007-05-31 19:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you're referring to, but you have to understand that if you put a question out there, you have to accept the answers unless they're offensive.
2007-05-31 19:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your psychiatrist sounds a bit crap but if you want to know what she meant, ask her what she meant. If you're looking for support and counselling elsewhere, this is not the place you're going to find it. Its hard to get a sensible answer to the simplest question on here. If you ask a question that you might not like the answers to, you're going to get answers that you aren't going to like.
2007-05-31 19:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't know what your questions were ... but if you are not concise and to the point you won't get a straight-forward answer!
2007-05-31 19:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by Aries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay objective. Take the positives from the negatives.
2007-05-31 19:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Always expect good and bad answers when you ask questions.Just take comfort in the good answers and disregard the bad ones.
2007-05-31 19:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by HerbalMix 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How could anyone say anything bad to one of the most delicious foods on earth? I love you.
2007-05-31 20:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋