i dont wnat to have a baby i hear it really hurts, do you think we shoudl do it?, the baby i mean , we do the sex, she really wnats to rear a child , is that legal?
2007-05-31 12:00:32 · 26 answers · asked by tim a 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OMG i ment We're both 19 if you combine our ages we're old enough to be responisble
2007-05-31 12:20:13 · update #1
Until you master the English language, there's absolutely no reason on Earth you should attempt parenting. In fact, stop "having the sex" and PICK UP A SCHOOL BOOK!!!!!
2007-05-31 12:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nice try 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you combine your ages you are 19? Does that mean you are 10 and 9 or 8 and 11? If so then it is illegal for you to have sex. It would also be illegal for any adult to allow you to have sex (to allow anyone under 16 in Vermont).
Answer: Don't do it.
Reasoning: Babies are lots of work, they don't let you sleep, they are expensive and they are a truly long term commitment. There is a good chance that one of you isn't old enough to impregnate or be impregnated, but don't risk it. The earlier a girl gets pregnant the greater the chance she will die of complications.
If for some reason you mistyped and you are both 19, my apologies. When you are ready to have a baby you will both want it. Talk to her about why she wants a baby maybe she just wants you to commit to her. Let her know you love her.
2007-05-31 12:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ann H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 19 combine. I think you should wait. Babies cost a lot of money before they are born, just think how much the cost after the birth. They are really cute and fun to have around for a day or two as in babysitting. But when its your own child its a different story being so young. I'm almost 21 with a child due and I feel to young at times. There is so many things that my husband and I aren't going to be able to do when she arrives.
2007-05-31 12:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by kimm1986 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont actually think that it is legal. Having a baby really hurts and is a huge responsibility. I say wait until you get older have fun while your young. If your absolutely going to have sex, use condoms. Dont bring a baby into the world if you cant provide a great life for it..They are really expensive.
2007-05-31 12:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Prego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no... i had my son when i was sixteen. It is very hard to raise a child. It sounds to me your girlfriend is in love with the idea of having a baby. Not the actual providing and molding a human being you both made into a wonderful adult. Please do not do this to a child. It is so much more to it than you think. Tell her there is plenty of tiem for that in the future. In the mean time stay in school, educate yourself and tell her to do the same. For the sake of a child and you and your girlfriend rethink this.
2007-06-03 17:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by ashley38930 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 if you combine the ages? Does that mean your 8 or something, okay even if your 19, dont you have a lot of time for that in the future
2007-05-31 12:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by SuGaBeAr** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... of path i do no longer comprehend what you daughter's final call would be, so possibly those will no extra healthy in any respect, yet I akin to the belief of two names ending with an 'a' sound. possibly Alba. Priya. Maya. in case you elect for yet another sound, Cruz and Mai sound large to me too. solid success and congrats on your woman baby!
2016-10-06 10:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning the desire then you are in the wrong state of mind. It takes less to have a child then to raise a child. Please be wise in your decision, think about all consequences, such as can you afford it? what do I want to do with my life? Is a child going to hinder my life goal?
If you feel a baby is still something to consider after asking all th big questions then talk with a doctor. Just make sure it is a joint decision.
2007-05-31 12:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by sm.elson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait so you're 8 years old?? Whether you guys are 19 or 8 you're to young go see a bit of the world first. If she keep pushing the idea I'd dump her.
2007-05-31 12:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! Dont answer her calls....don't take anything she gives you to drink , it might be spiked. And if you do think with the wrong head don't trust her if she says shes on the pill. Use a condom....no USE 2!!! She is hiding something from you...perhaps she hates her parents and wants you to take care of her the rest of her life. If you father that baby she has you by the mad hood until the baby is 18 and there is nothing you can do about it.....SO RUN!!
2007-05-31 12:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋