Do you think that a bad child equals a bad mom?

Answer 1

95% of the time a child who misbehaves has had poor parenting. Children only learn what they are taught.

Sure, there are other influences; but it is up to the primary guardian(s) to be involved in the child's life to know what those influences are and to offset any that they find to be negative.

Get to know the child's friends and talk to their friends' parents, be clear about what things are acceptable and not when your child visits their house. Watch the shows they watch and listen to the music they like and discuss them together so the child can learn to be a discriminating consumer. Remove privileges when there is bad behavior and reward and encourage good behavior. Be generous with love and affection. And most importantly, lead by example. Be the kind of person that you want your child to become, because they never listen to "do as I say, not as I do."

Answer 2

raising of child and the behavior of a child is dependent on varying degrees.

1) Parents
2) the environment in which the child is raised
3) School
4) teachers at the school
5) close friends

so i guess having considered that i'd say no not always is a bad kid = a bad mother but when added with other bad things in the childs life a bad kid on occasion can equal a bad mom.

Answer 3

In general it's most often at least one parent's fault. Usually both, because if you have one good parent it usually balances out the other. Most often a bad parent is one that is apathetic towards their child's behavior. The type that makes statements like, "Well, what are you gonna do?" or "Boys will be boys." Or like when a child is throwing a temper tantrum in a church wedding or movie theater and the parent is just sitting there saying something like, "Now, now, Johnny. We don't act like that" while their little brat ignores them and bothers everybody in the place. They haven't got even the sense and courtesy to remove their child from the situation and deal with it elsewhere. I just wish it was legal to smack a parent like that now and again....

I'm sure there are exceptions where good parents produce bad kids, but coaching a little league team and seeing how my son's friends act at birthday parties and such, I can spot a bad parent by their child's behavior better than 90% of the time. And when I say "bad kid" I mean like the kid who gets mad and throws a baseball at a teammate's back intentionally trying to hurt them. Or one that swings a baseball bat in the dugout and accidentally clips another kid. Those are the same kids whose parents let them have their way and push around mommy and daddy in a crowded theater, etc....

Answer 4

Heck no, each child is different and maybe their being "bad" is really just a need for more attention, a need for more exercise, a need for more affection...it could be a number or combination of things.

A bad mom would include being neglectful, mean, or otherwise unfair to your growing child. There are tons of books out there on parenting, you should read one to find out if there is anything you might be doing wrong with your child.

Answer 5

There are many factors which determine behavior. Parenting is only a piece of the puzzle. What influence does the father have on the child? Which behavioral traits may be genetic? How does society affect the child? What about peers and peer pressure. How about economic pressures? Radio and TV ads (marketing schemes). It is tough raising a child today. You can do your best to ward off bad behaviors and influences, but there are still many out there that you cannot control.

Answer 6

No, even small children have ideas and opinions of their own, they don't just mimic Mommy and Daddy. As they grow up they learn other behaviors from TV, relatives, friends and co-workers, and they make their own choices as to what sort of person they want to be. If the kid is still little, Mom and Dad still have a lot of influence, and can steer the child in the right direction. Besides, no child is a perfect angel all the time, they all have good days and bad days, just like adults. Don't beat yourself up, tomorrow is always another day. If he/she is old enough to understand, explain what behaviors they are doing that are wrong, and why, remind them of the importance of being a "good person". When they whine that it's not fair, so-and-so does this or that, remind them that it's your house and your rules, and that the small choices they make every day to do good or evil determine the course of their life.

Answer 7

A child is a product of his/her upbringing, thats a simple fact. Before all the syndromes were invented there were not so many animals flooding our society. And if there is not a full time father in the picture, just another testimony to the fact that single parenthood dont work. Yes there are some examples, but the animals outweigh the good kids by an exponetial margin. Give that child a good ole *** whoopin, it worked for very generation before you.

Answer 8

Not always but sometimes yes. and I think a more accurate representation of this question is "bad parents". A child needs both parents or a very strong single parent. It is a very difficult job parenting a child. It is also not directly correlated with parents. A child does have other influences IE: friends, relatives, teachers, etc. You as a parent needs to be aware of how you child is doing in school, who he/she spends her time with.
Don't beat yourself up and blame yourself, but also don't blame it on other people. Its a shared influence.

Answer 9

Not necessarily, because there are cases when you have a bad mom but a good child who tries a lot.

But maybe, generally, bad kids get their traits from their parents or adults.

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