I'm still a virgin. But my mom thinks I'm lying and she thinks I've had sex. I have a boyfriend but I never went past 2nd base. How can I make her believe me?
2007-05-31 11:03:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
whether or not your a virgin...your:
♥11 years old
♥in the 5th grade
♥have gotten fingered by a guy
♥have given a guy a handjob
♥you should be ashamed, your headed down the wrong path so hopefully your mom can help you. please stop this. you shouldnt do anything but kiss boys at that age.♥
2007-05-31 11:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am to believe some of your other questions, than you are only 11! Hasn't anyone told you that you are not to be letting boys touch your most precious body until you are old enough and responsible enough to handle the consequences?
The emotional and physical feelings you are having by going to second base at 11 are forcing you into an adult situation that you should not have to deal with. Are you bored? Nothing else to do? Friends telling you that they are doing this stuff too?
If you are allowing your body to be touched in such an intimate way at 11, full body contact is not far behind. Do you want to be a mommy at 13?
Well, good for your mom for taking you to the doctor. Be honest and accept any birth control offered so you are prepared for the next step you seem to be rushing toward!
2007-06-05 19:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a conversation with her about it. Act mature, so that she feels that you are being honest. Let her know that you and your boyfriend haven't had sex yet, but that if/when you decide to, you would like to be prepared and be safe about it.
I know it might be hard, but being open with your mom is really the best thing. Maybe she has some advice for you, or maybe she would like to talk to you about birth control, but she doesn't know how. If you go to her like an adult, I'm sure she will believe you.
I am 23 and married now, but when I was in my mid teens, my mom and I started having those awkward talks, and at first it was just that: awkward. But as we got more used to talking about it, it became easier. Now we have a really close relationship, and it's because we are open with eachother.
Try it. Goodluck!
2007-05-31 11:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay. I am not going to tell about what I did when I was your age(not good. don't do it).
Sit down with your mom and look her straight in the eye say
"Mom. If you realy think that I would do something that stupid at my age, then you don't know me at all. I can't belive that you don't trust me. I did NOT have sex, with anybody weather you believe me or not. I know I did not have sex and that is the total truth."
If she dosn't believe that after you tell her that, then she does not trust you at all and you should just go to a doctor and show her that you are not pregnant. After that she should trust you more.
I realy hope this helps ♥ ♥
2007-06-06 14:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is giving her the idea that you are having sex? Are you doing anything to make her suspect that you are having sex? She is probably worried that you will have sex, and knowing all the things that could happen as a result of having sex, she sees these things happening to you. Sit down and talk to her about this honestly. Mom's worry about these things, and you should be grateful that she cares enough to do so.
2007-06-07 03:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell your mom. Be stern. And you have no business going to 2nd base at such a young age. You are going down the wrong path.
2007-06-03 06:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by thathockeychick23 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what is 2nd base for you? If you are a virgin and she does'nt believe you there's not much you can do. But do tell her that you are being honest and it's very important for you that she believes in you.
2007-05-31 11:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Joana M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't, she either trusts you or not. YOu can be honest with her and hope that she will, but if she doesn't than I would not worry about that. If she asks don't get defensive, just simply say that you are not having sex and answer all her questions. If you know that you are saying the truth nothing can change so just don't stress about it
2007-06-05 10:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Malgorzata B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same happen to me and I was hurt and offended by it so just let her know that you want some to talk and trust in, let her know its important to you so that you and her could have a better relationship and could speak to her about anything instead of going to a friend for advice.
2007-06-04 13:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have too. My mom thought I was probably the biggest whore since I was one the dance team in high school. She always asked me questions and when I would answer she would say yeah right... She never believed me. I just ignored her and I felt since I knew that's all that mattered. I don't have a baby of my own yet so I guess I was a clean, safe, whore : )
2007-05-31 16:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by stepmom of 1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋