there is this girl in my class who is talk and dyes her hair bleach blond so basically she is the "Barbie" of the class nad all the guys think she is hot! but she is really fake. How can i get the boys to stop paying attention to her and more to me ?
2007-05-31 10:29:08 · 18 answers · asked by lyss 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
JUST BE YOUR SELF, BE NATURAL
2007-05-31 10:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself because you want a guy who likes you for you right? Have your own style and be confident, don't act all ditsy, not a turn on to guys. Just make sure you have nice hair and wash your face every day. Treat yourself to a facial once in awhile. And look at the kind of guys she's attracting, do you really want the kind of guy that only sees your outer beauty?
2007-05-31 17:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by lydia033 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret is inner joy and kindness. For real, whatever she's got will diminish. And if your joy and kindness doesn't win them over, then you know what? They're NOT what you want, and you're better than they are- stay away from them. Maybe this sounds silly, but it is really true. Find joy and love within yourself, and spread it around. There is nothing more attractive than a happy person, and THAT is truly beautiful.
2007-05-31 17:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by christy j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If those guys don't pay attention to you, then they are probably just completely shallow. Why not try to strike up a conversation with them? Maybe you should try to be more outgoing and do what you want to do and not what they want you to do. I used to just do what people wanted me to do, but now, I am so independent and lots of people like me. So what if you aren't the prettiest girl in the world! People like me though and they could like you too. This question needs to be answered by your heart because no one else but you can answer this.
2007-05-31 17:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by lm2twisterchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember thats shes just like a fad, they'll eventually get bored of her. just be urself (having to change ur apperance so drastically for the sake of a few dudes' attention isn't worth it) keep from looking fake by keeping ur makeup nice and not too heavy, clothes nice not trashy and ignore all the attention that theyre givin her, maybe u'll find that theres 1 guy that doesnt like that kinda look (not all guys do)
2007-05-31 17:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might sound cheesy..but you have to think you're beautiful first..that confidence you show will make you glow..but just do little things like..a little eye shadow..but basically act like you could care less what the guys think of you...that attracts them to you
2007-05-31 17:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nestle Dip!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it sounds redundant but be yourself, maybee change your hair, your clothes or your attitude or all. shes a ragidy fake bumb, don't let her bleach blonde barbie image tear you down. and tell her and those boys bella said their ignorant idiots hope i helped
2007-05-31 17:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not worth it you don't want to compete with looks you want to win by having the person that you love love you back then you will be prettier than her inside so focus on your own life instead of worrying how prettier other people look it's the root of jealousy don't think about it.
2007-05-31 17:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do a drastic change, like dye/ cut your hair, change your style a bit, talk a bit more. when guys notice ou, show them youre REAL personality, theyll drop her like a ball and appreciate you more because you are real
2007-05-31 17:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe get like a new top or pair of jeans that are really flattering and rock it! Who cares about her?
2007-05-31 23:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by boulala. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk her down to guys cuz thats a turn off
just be yourself dont change
guys will realize it if your natural and nice!
2007-05-31 17:32:41 · answer #11 · answered by lala p 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋