When your spouse cheated on you what do you think the reason was and can you let it go.
2007-05-31 10:11:16 · 11 answers · asked by sos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When my husband left me it was in his words "We fight too much and we are not compatible" He worked alot of hours and we did fight alot. We fought cause he was always working and when he got home he just ate and went to bed..we had no social life and when i did want to go out he would get mad at me cause I didn't "appreciate" the fact that he worked so hard...yet his mom would call him for something and he was there in a flash......thats why we fought! Then I guess with his hours he spent alot of time with a whore at his work that would flirt with him and he thought that the grass was greener on her side........it was more like an emotional affair cause she was just using him to get promoted and actually wanted nothing to do with him. At the time we were married for 4yrs just gave birth to my first son and we had a foster child also...........he didn't care about any of us...he was just thinking the head below...men are idiots!
2007-05-31 10:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After twelve years of marriage she went through a phase. The doctor said she reverted to her teen years. She said she was infatuated with this guy. Well it almost ruined our family, it did his.
She left me, with four kids. I told her it was up to her. She could come back, we'd try. Within a year, she wanted a divorce and went wild in our town,. I left and went back to school. After a year, she called and said she wanted me back.
I came back. I found out she had an IUD in and was going to keep it. I was sterile and told her "no way" I wasn't staying this way and left.
I went back to our home. It went on and on. Two more times. I just let it go, getting to old to fight it. She came by one day with her mom and asked if she could come back. I told her I was happy alone.
She begged. I said O.K. we've been together since but, our lives have changed, she knows it. I'm disabled now and we're getting old. I just don't care. She's admitted she's afraid I'll meet someone and leave. I let her think this.
I do love her but, not in the way I did when we were married.
2007-05-31 10:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm on the other end, but I think the number #1 reason WHY most spouses will cheat is because one loses interest in sex and the other feels deprived, lonely, sad, depressed and thinks they can do better
2007-05-31 10:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-06 09:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by arieux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was because he had too much time on his hands. He started drawing disability and I was working all day so he
started fooling around. He is my ex spouse, I got over it but it took a long time. Better for me, I now have a great husband.
2007-05-31 10:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was and still is a slime ball and a lying piece of crap that doesn't care about anyone but himself-not even his kids. I disagree with Jay; those reasons would have been mine had I cheated on him, but I was lonely while he was never where he was supposed to be. I didn't let it go. I did waste nine years of my life on him.
2007-05-31 10:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by kyeann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am still trying to figure out why he cheated on me. I don't think there is a reason other than selfishness. People that cheat don't realize the harm they do to their mate.
2007-05-31 10:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason important enough to become the biggest azzhole in world's history to your spouse.....sorry.....
2007-05-31 10:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you for real?
Well if it were any kind of marriage then you'd know why they cheated on you...you wouldn't think. If you don't have lines of communication open then it wasn't much of a marriage to begin with, so why not let it go.
2007-05-31 10:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he cheated becouse he was a dog. i wanted sex all the time. it wasnt like he couldnt get it at home. yea, i let go. i paid everything off, left him with the material goods and took my "goods" elsewhere. never regreated it.
2007-05-31 10:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Ida 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋