I live in New York City, and they all retired to Southamerica. Does this make any sense to you?
2007-05-31 10:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
they probably see you as the strong one in the family!!the wise one!just do what you do best!!ytou give the best advice!!
2007-05-31 11:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion used correctly can be a wonderful tool to aiding others and yourself. Used incorrectly such as trying to explain all things by religious definition can cause emotional problems when the one it is used on is seeking practical advice or help in a situation where religion has no real answers. Example: mental patients who are told that "god" can cure them if they only believe are more prone to huge emotional breakdowns when "god" does not follow through on the promise made by the religious person who gave the advice. Too often I hear that "god" can fix anything. The sad fact is that "he" doesn't and when this is pointed out as being the wrong thing to say to someone who is under mental stress, I am told that I will burn in hell for not believing enough. Religion does not have all the answers, but it can help in some cases.
2016-05-17 23:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by benita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always the person to be leaned on for emotional support. They have picked you. My mother was the leaning stone for a time, and now it has been passed down to me. That is just family!
2007-05-31 10:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally DO have to solve all my family's problems....most times I am the adult and my mom is the child...i have to look after her kids plus mine plus figure out how she can solve all her problems too. so yes, they do expect you to solve their problems. i guess it's a sign that they see us as adult, confident and capable. or they're just lazy.
2007-05-31 11:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by just curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r there hope and love u not then who would,?throw them in the old homes with no one of family around like most of them do live forr themselves like dogs do.even the dogs live for their masters where are we humans going?
2007-05-31 21:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that you are in the same boat as me and they know you are the most dependable and the most trustworthy and the most together out of your family and thats y they lean on you .... it sucks i know sometimes i just wish i could be the one taking it easy and messing up and let them clean up my messes once in a while...
2007-05-31 10:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by crazyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My family, too. It's because they see you as the strong one.
2007-05-31 16:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be worse if they lived next door..believe me
2007-05-31 10:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Citizen Mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk but because they think your the best all my family thinks my mom can solve all there problems and she does at least we think soo its a good think you should be happy they trust you
2007-05-31 10:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by j'olle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz u let them
2007-05-31 22:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋