what can i do to make her believe me.?

Question

its been one and half year i have been loving this lady .its because she has a beautiful heart.her caring,concern and loving nature towards me made me go mad about her.we belong to different religions,different nations.she cared for me when iam lonely and dying with the surgery i had.she bought me food.she cooked for me though her family hated me.she cared like my mom would have done for me.she avoided me.she kept away from me.iam mentally disturbed.i could not think she behave to me like that.i misunderstood her.i fought with her.i ran away from her but now i realize that i put her in deep trouble with her family.trying to talk to her. but could not get hold of her .please help me .i love her madly.i want to marry her.i want to be with her.please tell me what to do.......
iam desperate ..helpless...

Answer 1

Wow...

First off, religion. Many will not agree with this, but that's their opinion. In MY opinion, religion is basically from a biblical quote (paraphrased because I cant remember where the scripture is:) "Don't not be unevenly yoked." What this means is if you are from one religion or belief and the other religion belief conflicts with the other, then there will be strife and underlying discontent.

The family is looking for her best interest and if they are looking at you, they see someone that needs to be catered to. Yes I read you were dying, surgery, etc. But that doesn't matter to them. Yes, religiously, they should allow you to be catered to (cared for/assisted) in your time of need for that is biblical as well. But once you are on your feet. You are weak at best, religiously and physically. Also assuming that you are out of work, finances and a pursuing career is minimal... Those factors alone, will send most parents reeling with doubt and thus, try to push you out of the picture in her head as much as possible.

Now, you have a few things on your side. Is she living in the U.S. ? Has she always lived with her family? If so, there is a possibility that thanks to the never ending commercial grinder that has replaced the "American Dream" she will be bombarded to think as an individual and how her family is just old fashioned and "stuffy". If she falls for this, she will rebel from her families beliefs and stranglehold on her (stranglehold in the sense that their beliefs and traditions should be static), and she will run off with you. The bad news about this is one of two possibilities:
1.) She will have so much tradition instilled in her that she will not be able to break away from it and slowly resent you from it
2.) Her traditions will become distorted and perverted and she will not be the person that you once knew (Think of Madonna and her Catholic upbringing or Creeds Pentecostal upbringing as an artistic example).

Tradition and family home life has a deep impact on they way people live no matter how far away they run from it.

Of course, if you as desperate as you claim you are, you will try to fit in to the family and their ways.
Granted, they will applaud you for this but you will always have someone murmuring behind your back about you. Because:
You were not raised by their traditions
You were not raised by their religion
and not surprisingly,. you too will hold resentment and start to pervert your old beliefs and traditions amongst this family.
THAT is why the family is hard on you, its not you personally its you AND your traditions/beliefs. If you really care about her, and she to you and both decide to throw caution to the wind. I can only give you one main piece of advice:
COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING! Will you fight more? Yep. Will you disagree more being so open? YEP YEP. Will she love you more for it? YEP YEP YEP!!!
So be honest with yourself, and her at all times, if its meant to be, it will, don't cave in until YOU KNOW its over. Good Luck! It wont be easy but you know what? Life never really is anyways....
P.S. About the mental freak out... Think if this is what you really want to do. (I don't mean a 2 sec. YEAH! Take a week, spend much time ALONE, no distractions, and think REALLY hard! This will take lots of openness and confidence and honesty. Sounds easy till you start and realize you may bump heads on the way. Also, sounds like she cared for you when you were down and out hopefully you will do the same in return whether its mental, physical, or emotional...

Any way, Good Luck to ya!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

whatever you do, DON'T hijack a plane