To make a long story short, someone who is not willing to committ, but keeps comming around because they can't bare to be without the person and even when ties are broken they continuosly return...... (they know that it will not work, tooo much barriers) unhealthy situation in every aspect! Is that feeling of helplessness just an unhealthy relationship? Or is it just caring a lot for someone that you find it hard to let go of?
2007-05-31 09:25:33 · 10 answers · asked by beyondeyezcanc 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This person needs to either pick one or the other: sustain a permanent relationship or part forever. I think it's a case of being allowed to be indecisive rather than being forced to choose. Depending on which the person chooses, it is either love or obsession.
2007-05-31 09:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if they want all the benefits of being in a relationship w/o the committment. Maybe like having your cake and eating it too. Don't know the persons mindset but the relationship seems unhealthy. It looks like emotional dependency.
2007-05-31 09:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by KBrooks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind.
Even if the situation is against them, they are motivated by their heart, not their logic, therefore they choose denial, rather than the devestating truth that will crush every little hope they may be harboring towards a remotely possible happy ending.
Someone deeply in love is deeply addicted to the one they love. It is not a mental disorder, it is a gift/curse. They choose rather to live with pain as long as there is a possibility of a union- even only if in their mind and dreams, than face the crushing truth that, that dream may never come to pass.
Hope this answers your question.
2007-05-31 09:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by ROSE 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well , I can say for a fact that society , taken as
a whole , Is ,and has to be co-depend. There a
the co-depends & the there are enablers...(lol , sorry there is a bunch in between...... ) Maybe this person feels safe around you and sees you as a enabler... or you might have answered your own
question......... however the situation ,.. tell this person how YOU feel.
sorry if not much help.
ms.kate
2007-05-31 10:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by rrainn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a excessive Compulsive thing in a lot of cases and a habit, not necessarily love or healthy. They just can't seem to find anything else to keep there mind busy or focused on.
2007-05-31 11:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an unhealthy obsession.
2007-05-31 09:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unhealthy attachment in every way. If it is you--move on! If you are the one being stalked, er, returned to again and again--bar the door!
2007-05-31 09:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, just let go of it. There's nothing to hold onto.
2007-05-31 09:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by pm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, unhealthy
been there, done that. Was a mess for a while after.
2007-05-31 09:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by the shiz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ever considered that perhaps it's love?
2007-05-31 09:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋