And Im not talking about the kinda rape where she is getting beat up and then raped. Im talking about when he has intercourse for a long time and she begs him to stop but he does'nt, he just kisses her to make her lubricated and then keeps sexin her until she passes out and can barely walk from being to weak. Why would he want to torture her in this way?
2007-05-31 09:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is very disturbed. Maybe he is living out a sick fantasy of something. Could be that he has or plans to do this to other women.
I do agree it is a control issue.
This could progress to a more serious situation.
2007-05-31 09:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Life is Sweet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-18 10:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape has nothing to do with sex or love. It is about power. Yes, as mentioned before it could be a fetish. BUT if both parties are not consensual to it, it is STILL rape. Rape is unacceptable. Nor should it be tolerated.
I was raped, I speak from experience that I did NOT enjoy it. It was horrible.
2007-05-31 09:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well im in the marines and we just had our yearly class on sexual assault.
and the bottom line i know hes ur man and all. but the second you say stop, and he doesnt ,it is rape. no matter what.
rape is when the penis is in the vargina, even it it was just one time. hey thats the bottom line. you could be wanting it and and lets say you changed you mind and tell him to stop and he keeps going . hey that rape. he will go to jail. that is a punishable offence.
same goes for females to men, but i havent heard of a case where a dude will report a woman for rape.
2007-05-31 09:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by nono 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If she says stop and you don't stop then it's rape.. Sounds like he likes to torture her. If a woman says stop then you must stop or it can be called rape. How and why she would put up with this I don't know but yes he could be in for trouble if she reports him.
2007-05-31 09:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he is a controlling Ahole who has no respect for his wife or her needs...he sounds like a dangerous individual
Bluemist that is the most ignorant statement!! Any sex that is not consentual is RAPE, even if it is a husband doing it to a wife!!! No means no!!
2007-05-31 09:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by juda75 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Rape isn't about sex, it's about power and this sounds like he is attempting to exert his power over you, and actually it can be a turn-on for both the man and the woman. It doesn't need to be violent and yes, a good many men and women both get turned on by the idea. Force fantasies are one of the top two or three fantasies that women have. It is also high on the list of male fantasies.
It is perhaps one of those things that falls into the category of, if it doesn't hurt anyone and you enjoy it, then do it. But you can just ask him why he enjoys that idea. You might learn something really good about him (or perhaps really bad).
By the way, have you ever read romance novels? These are books generally written by women for women ... but almost all of them include at least once scene of forced sex. Why? The male influence is gone, so why is it there? Because so many women enjoy the fantasy of being forced, but not hurt.
2007-05-31 09:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by John B 7 · 3⤊ 5⤋
She needs to get far, far, away from him. There are all kinds of reasons, he would do this. Basically power and control. She needs to report him. Having been there under different circumstances. I really feel for her. She can e mail me annshphrd@yahoo.com If not let her know there are domestic violence shelters, etc. He does not love her. Now I doubt she feels true love for him.
2007-05-31 09:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ann S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men are extremely controlling. A man who would do that to his wife is one who is just exercising control over her. Unless she really enjoys that kind of sex, she should get away from him, because his controlling behavior will expand well beyond that.
Take care,
Troy
2007-05-31 09:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He has no respect for his wife and he has no respect for her feelings, or anything for that matter. That's wrong. He is taking advantage of her. She needs to get the heck away from him & find someone who treats her right.
2007-05-31 09:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Brent W 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋