hi, I found out that a couple days ago my husband shave his hair down there I am just wondering what that was?

Question

for or just to catch my attetion, i don't want to ask him. I wanted you ideas to tell me what I should do for him.

Answer 1

He might be trying be trying to catch your attention. He might think it makes him sexier. Or he might have the crabs and they are becoming to itchy to bare. Just ask him. What do you have to lose? It's just a question from a wife to a husband. You don't have to be accusatory, but if he immediately jumps to the defense then you might want to check your area out too. All the best.

Answer 2

You can't pretend that you didn't notice, its kind of obvious. You should say "did you do this for me?" see what he answers to that. Tell him if you like it better or not. Check his reaction to that. Its sort of a fashion, guys see it in pornography, could be many reasons, he found gray hairs, wants to wear a speedo (bad news), Wants you to like oral sex more is probably the most common reason, you should test this out. But worst case is an affair where the other girl wants it. I imagine most husbands would mention it first, but he may be the spontaneous type.

Answer 3

It could be anything from trying to catch your attention, to trying to catch someone else's, or it could be that he heard about it and decided to try it. It does allow the man to be more sensitive and feel less hidden and more exposed and therefore he would feel sexier. I'd go with the innocent ideas first, but keep your eyes and ears open.

Of course you could just ask him. Why did he do this? What was he seeking? How could you join in the fun? It could be a great opportunity, so don't attack, but go with the flow.

Answer 4

You should thank him, very nice thing for a man to do, some guys are more up on that type of stuff than others, always appreciated by the woman, makes oral more inviting.

But the right answer is you should ask him, but thinking good thoughts he was probably doing it to see if you noticed. See there are creative men in the world, if he has given you no reason to be suspicious think good thoughts too.

Answer 5

I'm confused sweetie, what do you mean what you can "do" for him? You really will have to ask HIM why he did it. It could be he just wants to see if you noticed. I know sometimes men do that for other women - has he been acting weird lately? Im not saying 'he's cheating' I'm just asking. My husband asked me if I thought he should shave "down there" and I said NO, that I like it how it is and so he left it. Do you like it shaved? You have to communicate with HIM, you married him, not us. Good luck.

Answer 6

Maybe he is trying to get a point across: How hairy are you?

My girlfriend likes me to do it, and I tried once, but I did not like it at all. It reminded me too much of when I was a kid and I wanted it to grow to show that I was a man. Now I guess I'm too attached to the hair on my body since it makes me feel like a man...

Answer 7

I surely hope this is not the case but in years past people who have gotten crabs used to shave themselves and treat it with various ointments.

Answer 8

He probably is waiting for you to approve of it and is waiting for you to say you like it ... My wife loves it when I do...She says it feels way better and I got to admit it does especially when we do it together...Do it together It can be fun and you might like it ....The only thing that sucks is it might itch for a few days after but its no big deal

Answer 9

Has he always done this or is this a one time deal if this is something he has always done and you are just now noticing then you guys have bigger issues than your hubby shaving his genitals

Answer 10

there's nothing wrong w/that. maybe his b u sh was too long and he messed up during the trimming process. My ex used to do it all the time. Gosh, I would think if you are having sex with someone that you'd feel more comfortable asking....