what do u do when u are married to a man u love but u disagree on a lot of issues concerning money eg u believe in investing on kids education and he justs wants a nice house in the village where u dont even stay
2007-05-31 09:10:09 · 8 answers · asked by Pearlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you try to compromise... Give a little... take a little... and come to an agreement together... Good luck
2007-05-31 09:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Oula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If money problems are coming between the two of you, there is a solution. You need to find someone who can advise you on your situation. You could try an investment firm or a financial planner. They can show you a way to each get what you want financially.
You also need to look at what is behind this issue. Is it deeper than just wanting to spend money differently? What are your values and goals for your life? Start to examine what is happening and you will be able to find a solution.
2007-05-31 16:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Terri Klapperich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my life and sounds like a cross road. You two sounds different and it will always be a problem it will never go away. You sound like a financially sound and responsible person like myself. Your husband sounds superficial and materialistic which I think will keep you broke. I just had an ex with 2 1/2yrs invested and all we did was disagree about money, and just easily walked away. You now are married and have so much more invested than I do. You hubby to can't be as stubborn and uncontrollable as my ex so work on him. Good Luck
2007-05-31 16:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sit down and weigh the pros and cons of both and c if u can resolve them that way. If that doesn't work, let him know that ur kids r getting a great education and u'll worry about the house in the village after ya'll retire.
2007-05-31 16:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u can compromise... no matter what u do with ur money, insist on putting a certain percentage of ur paychecks into an education fund for your children. even if he gets his vacation house, u still want to make sure ur kids' education is provided for.
long story short, u have to both understand that you both have things that are important to you, and u cannot ignore one and do the other... u gotta work on it together
2007-05-31 16:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to talk and get on the same page about what you want to do.
2007-05-31 16:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make him see things your way no ifs ands nor butts
2007-05-31 16:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's pathetic... doesn't care about his kids... he needs his priorities sorting out...
2007-05-31 16:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋