I'm a Leo/Virgo Cusp, am I compatibile w/ an Aries man?

Question

Well, here's the sitch:

Me ~ *sun sign* leo/virgo cusp; *moon sign* gemini; *venus* Taurus; *mars* Capricorn; *chinese zodiac* fire tiger

Him~ *sun sign* aries; *moon sign* taurus; *venus* libra; *mars* capricorn; *chinese zodiac* fire tiger

i can't find anywhere where i can see if all these makes us compatible or not. i think the fact that i'm a cusp makes it so much more difficult to find. i never know if i should look under leo or virgo since i have both tendencies.

can anyone help? would you be able to tell me if he and i are a good match? great match? fair...bad...BIG mistake...lol.

Answer 1

Actually, cusp people are compatible with other cusp people. The Leo/Virgo cusp which is from August 19-25 is attracted to people born on the Aquarius/Pisces cusp (February 16-22) and the Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp (November 19-24).

Answer 2

Well I'm an Aries, and I think you're pretty interesting... :)

However, that wasn't the question... soooooo...If you'd like a really good interpretation report regarding compatibility, though, I'd suggest:

http://www.widgetsworld.co.uk/compatibility.php

The fact that both of your Mars are in Capricorn could be interesting and an attractor between you. However, it could also mean when one of you -decides- it will be a certain way, the other person ain't gonna budge... LOL

Also to do a really good synastric (compatibility) comparison we'd usually look at the entire chart... not just the planets you've mentioned... although those are certainly very important to consider!

Answer 3

1-Think about the girl who is dealing with this guy,loved him and hoped to have him for 5 years,do you like to be with this guy for 5 years and then he easily give you up ? If you don't care about the fairness of the story the same thing will happen to you because he is the same guy. Unless their relationship is not a real one and has ended already 2-Yes ,from experience Aries men who does not commit easily have been married to Libra girl for long run,i have seen Aries men who could only be married to a Libra girl,otherwise he will be the single don Juan.See what is his Venus too.

Answer 4

I think you two could make it work. You can get a free sample compatibly chart (or order one I think there like $35) at the site below. I got one done and there pretty accurate.

Answer 5

a good way to tell about your love matches is using your VENUS sign...the Venus tells you "how you love"

MY venus is in Taurus too so I can understand how you feel in love...here is something that may help you understand how to treat each other better:

Venus in Taurus
Love for Venus in Taurus centers on the physical world and creature comforts -- they revel in sensual surroundings. These people project themselves as solid and comfortable. In fact, something about their manner promises they will be satisfying lovers and partners. They need a certain measure of predictability and dependability in their relationships, even if their Sun is in the more spontaneous signs of Aries or Gemini.

Venus in Taurus men and women can be possessive in love, and they are threatened by fast-paced, high-energy situations in the context of relationships and love. These are sensual partners who require lots of "hands-on" expressions of love. Their lovers may complain that Venus in Taurus can get a little too comfortable and settled. It's true that they resist change in their relationships, but even when they seem stuck in a groove, you can always reassure yourself by remembering that they are constant partners.

Pleasing Venus in Taurus involves emphasizing your loyalty, and their worth to you. You may need to give in to them in love matters, because they won't readily give in to you! Get physical with them; do comfortable things. Avoid pushing them in love -- give them plenty of time. You will probably need to cultivate patience if you are in a relationship with Venus in Taurus. Remember to be simple and natural -- Taurus will appreciate it. Promise them a comfortable, cozy time.

Venus in Libra
Venus in Libra people will try to impress you with their kindness, evenhandedness, and willingness to make your relationship work. They have a polished manner in love, which sometimes makes them appear insincere or superficial. They are gentle lovers who hate to be offended. They are threatened by bad manners and direct or abrasive expression of feelings. They not only prefer to choose the middle road, they seek the middle ground in their relationships. You can expect to be treated fairly, and you may be turned on by Venus in Libra's willingness to concede and adjust their lives to fully accommodate you.

Venus in Libra men and women have idealized images of their relationships, even to the point where the relationship becomes bigger than life, taking on a life of its own. They can become quietly resentful if they feel they are being taken advantage of -- and they make it easy for more aggressive types to bully them around.

Pleasing Venus in Libra involves treating them kindly and fairly. They love to share everything with you, so let them. Foreplay for them can be mental -- they love to communicate with you about the relationship. Sharing turns them on, and tactless or uncouth behavior is a turn-off. Although they seem to put up with a lot, be fair with them. Over time, imbalance in their relationship is sure to make them unhappy, and when it comes to this, they may try to even the score in subtle, roundabout ways. Don't let it come to that, and you will be rewarded with a lover who puts themselves in your shoes and treats you exactly how they would like to be treated.

My Personal Ad Bio: "I'm just a nice guy/gal -- some say I'm too nice. I'm romantic and love good conversations. I will please you. All I ask for is fairness."

***Leo female and Aries Male relationships work very well...the Virgo tendency you have will make you more pleasing to your Aries guy.

Some good examples of Leo F/Aries M relationships among celebs are Al and Tipper Gore, Gregory & Veronique Peck (they were married for years happily before he died), and Angela Bassett and Courtney Vance...

some bad examples? Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz... read biographies of some of those people to find out what worked and what didn't...

I know that as a Leo woman you are going to have to be patient with Aries, who can have power trips...you don't like to be ignored and neither will he when you are trying to settle differences...his temper will flare up from time to time but it should blow over...

Also, his moon sign is significant to show you how he will treat women. Here is a peek:

Moon Taurus-Moon Gemini
The major difference between you is that Gemini needs a lot of mental stimulation, and enjoys change and movement, while Taurus is much more deliberate, and slow to move or change. Taurus feels unhappy if asked to make frequent adjustments in routines or in the home environment, while Gemini is likely to feel restless or stifled if things stay the same for too long. Domestic tranquility and security are very important to Taurus, who is much more stable and even-tempered than Gemini.

Loyalty, constancy, and commitment come more naturally to Taurus, while Gemini is reluctant to be completely committed, emotionally.

Taurus is also a more sensual and instinctive person than Gemini, who is emotionally more mental, aloof and expressive. Taurus may be unable to articulate the reasons for an opinion or stance, yet be unwilling to budge from it. Taurus's stubbornness and slowness to embrace new experiences can be very trying to Gemini. But Taurus's emotional steadiness and nurturing qualities are also very appealing to Gemini.

Taurus may sometimes feel that Gemini lives in a fantasy world too much. Taurus also needs a lot more touching and physical closeness than Gemini at times.***