In junior high school I had a class with a teacher that didnt care about instruction and I sat in the front row next to a girl I was already known for being picked on in class for being overweight and then some girl would tell me I am hot and say when are we dating and talk to me sexually embarrassing me in front of everyone and the teacher would go along with it. Everday I would get red faced so much it was terrible I hated it. Now ten years later and I am in Philosophy in college and they talk about sex open and I get embarrassed I know everyone thinks that I am a weirdo but I am not I just had a flashback and turned red the first day of class and now its like a psychological thing so that whenever it happens I turn red and sweat and i hate it what should I do?
2007-05-31 08:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This doesn't sound like being embarrassed just about sex. this seems more that you have low self-esteem. build yourself up. find 10 things you like about yourself and repeat them everyday in the mirror for 30 days you will find you will have changed your esteem very easily and you can get on with your life
2007-05-31 08:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by jamgdurrett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like any other fear...they more you expose yourself to it the easier it will be over time. Take speaking in public for example, it was rated the biggest fear over death in a national poll. Most people do not have experience, or as in your case have had a bad one, so it frightens them. At first it is difficult but it will get easier, the worst thing you can do is hide from it and never address the issue. Asking this question is the first step, now continue to take them. Begin participating in the discussions and eventually the fear will diminish or possibly subside. Good luck!
2007-05-31 15:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your embarrassment stemmed from the fact that you were the brunt of the joke. Now you are constantly referring back to that event. You need to tell yourself that YOU had no control over that event and though you were embarrassed at the time, now is the time to grow past it and learn.
2007-05-31 15:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do yu ever have a sex or not if not then find yur partner and do it so manny time then think about it any time yu even sloley talk with yur friend about what yu did yu willbe ok good luck
2007-05-31 15:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by rameshp999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some!
...it always helps, right?
2007-05-31 15:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋