I would need you to call her and just tell her that I still love her and think about her. Tell her I want her back in my life. We have been apart about 4 years now and I know she wanted me last summer but I didn't know how to talk to her about us.. Don't tell her about the interent thingy here. Just say we are good friends. I can email details and her cell number if you can help me?? Woman know how to talk thats why. Thanks..
2007-05-31 08:19:35 · 9 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Oh, Peter, Peter, Peter! Pete, Pete, Pete! WHEN will you learn. You want her back, but you want a total stranger to begin that quest with a bold faced lie!
This plan will NOT work. Here are several reasons why:
1. It is a lie.
2. Your ex will see through that lie with a single intimate question that a stranger to you (and her!) cannot answer.
3. She will be pissed off when she finds out you lied and that you gave her information to a complete stranger.
4. Any complete stranger who would do this would be a bit unstable to begin with and probably up to no good to finish.
5. It is a lie!
6. After 4 years your ex has probably moved on and so should you.
7. Did I mention the whole thing is a lie?
You are not still in love, Peter. The memories are just still alive; and more than likely after all this time embellished a bit They are safe. Pining over the one that got away is safer than venturing into the unknown of another relationship with all its possibilities for failure--and success! Take the plunge anyway. It is time to move on. Good luck to you.
2007-05-31 09:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, write her a letter and send it to her. Not an email - a letter. This is the only non-creepy, non-offensive way to do this. Address the issues that led to your breakup. If you broke up because she didn't like something you were doing, explain why that will be different now. Make sure it's not too pushy - women hate that. Just tell her that you still care about her, and she's free to write you back or email you *if she ever changes her mind*. Don't make it sound like she "has to" do anything, or she'll just get ticked off. Try not to make it all about you - explain why *she* is the one for you. It's unlikely that she'll want to get back together, but at least you'll have given it a chance.
Good Luck
2007-05-31 10:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Junie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, call her yourself. There's no reason she would believe that some stranger calling to say you're still interested wasn't a joke. Tell her you still think about her, and you're sorry that you were scared to tell her sooner. Apologize for being a jerk, or whatever has been keeping you apart... if you want another chance you have to have the balls to do it yourself.
2007-05-31 08:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by RogueSpirit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reckon that the probabilities are high, she probable would not think of your courting is all too severe (sorry, you probable do not likely want to pay attention this, yet relationships are not too severe at 13, are they?) She ought to nonetheless fancy you and want yet another threat with you, so i think of that if her calling you incredibly bothers you, then tell her without delay which you have a female buddy which you have not any objective of leaving, and her calling plenty makes you experience uncomfortable. If she would not pay attention and keeps calling you, you could continually get her huge form blocked out of your cellular. sturdy success =]
2016-12-18 10:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having just read your other questions i am beginning to think you need some kind of counselling- you sound very insecure and sex obsessed- go see a counseller and start to rebuild your life- you don't actually need a woman in it- and no woman wants a man this insecure.
2007-05-31 08:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Asking strangers to approach her for you is a sign of a stalker. I think you need to take a step back and think about this obsession that would cause you to take this dangerous step of asking total strangers to contact her. You already know it's wrong because you know she would freak if she knew about this "internet thingy."
If you have something to say to her, say it yourself. If she says back off, respect that and move on.
2007-05-31 08:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Get some balls and tell her yourself, lol. It's okay if you don't know what to say, if she's like most women, and you think she still really likes you, she'll just appreciate that you called and still think about her.
2007-05-31 08:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
LOL Why don't you go do it yourself! She'll freak out hearing some random person talking about her lovelife and all that...
2007-05-31 08:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jasumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the phone #, 1800LIVESEX is that right
2007-05-31 08:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋