I am a lesbian, i know that, well i thought i did.
The problem is when i see a guy naked it turns me on. I dont want to sound 'hetrophobic' but i am used ot calling myself a lesbian. And i dont feel right calling myself Bisexual because guys do not turn me on in any other ways at all.
Do you think i am just being stupid, or does this sound confusing?
2007-05-31 08:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well many straight people fantasise about same sex when touching themselves and stuff.. doesn't mean they're gay or would actually ever do it in real life. I think most people are naturally opened to being bisexual just in different degrees. Like i'd put myself right in the middle between totally straight and totally gay, but I'm in a long term relationship with a girl :) People get turned on by many different things, but in the end of the day all that matters is who you want to be in a relationship with ^_~
2007-05-31 08:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think sexual identity and actual sexuality are two different things. I was kind of surprised when i talked to a very butch girlfriend of my class mate and she admitted to having been sexually attracted to some guys. I would say it is a part of human nature to be turned on by the idea of sex/nudity even if the act itself wouldn't be something we actually want to live out. Being a lesbian and identifying yourself as such doesn't necessarily come with an implant that allows you to see absolutely every male in an assexual way.
2007-05-31 13:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be confused. one of my friends had that same problem. the answer to this question really depends on your feelings. if you see a guy naked and it turms you on does it make you want to have sex with him? or does it just turn you on? if it just turns u on then ur not bisexual ur just kinky. but if it does more than just turn you on than u should consider that u r bisexual.
2007-05-31 08:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can call youerself anything you want but if a naked guy turned you on sexually then you are Bisexual.
It doesn't mean that you will ever have sex with a guy - but at least you know if that situation evercomes up that you will be able to respond.
2007-05-31 08:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stupid, no. Confusing, yes. I have always thought I'm a gay man but sometimes looking at girls turns me on a little.
2007-05-31 09:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just appreciate beauty when you see it. I'm heterosexual but think the female body is beautiful. You can look at a lovely painting & not want to take it off the wall.
2007-05-31 08:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to label yourself? Why go through life with one hand tied behind your back. Just be interseted in the PERSON---not necessarily their GENITALIA...
2007-05-31 08:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by jake78745 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think its perfectly natural for you to want to be with a man. By you telling yourself on a continual basis that your gay... your constantly trying to reinforce that title upon yourself. A person who is naturally straight or gay does NOT need to do that. You need to seriously think about whats going on in your head.
2007-05-31 08:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Prince 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I luv Jake's answer..... I can't say it any better..... go with the flow and be true to yourself not someone elses label!
Be happy :)
2007-05-31 08:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by :~Debbz~: 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life would be so much better if there were not a whole bunch of flaming queers around.. and you are either gay or you are not.. there is no such thing as bisexual.. and it sounds like you are attracted to a naked man.. apparently you are straight.. make that decision and leave it at that
2007-05-31 08:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jonathan B 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋