2007-05-31 08:10:57 · 24 answers · asked by Derek D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her what she wants you to do.
Do what she asks.
2007-05-31 08:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by freebird 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Frankly, I think talking about such a personal subject is inappropriate for a forum like this.
Also, you may need to improve communication with your wife instead of simply asking strangers how to jump her bones in a new way.
Talk to her. Romance her. Take her to dinner at a quiet little restaurant and surprise her with flowers. Ask her what you can do to make her happier. Not just in bed but in this journey you are taking together called "life."
Once the two of you really begin working together as true partners the sexual aspects of your relationship will improve.
Direct questions, such as the one you posed, only serve to draw out the idiots. Buy a good book on the subject instead of posting here.
I do wish for you to have the IDEAL relationship with your wife, but go to her and talk. Don't do it here.
Go to the quesstions that discuss how to make yourself a more interesting person.
Blessings and good wishes.
2007-05-31 09:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My favorite thing is having a few fingers inserted into my vagina while having my clitoris licked and sucked. This doesn't work for everyone. Ask your wife what she likes. If she doesn't know, maybe you can explore together what feels good to her. If you want a great sex life you need to be able to discuss these things. You might also try buying an illustrated sex guide and use that as a starting point for discussion. At the very least, she can point at pictures of what she would like to do.
2007-05-31 08:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by britonbard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that most women want from men is attention, not just in the bedroom but most of the time. when you are both out with freinds give her a wink and a smile, make her feel good. for most women the act of sex is not the be all and end all, its all the leading up to it that counts. Treat her like a lady, a good friend that you can laugh and joke with, have "play fights" cuddles, and as things heat up ask her "show me what you want" but make it husky and sexy. The rest will then be easy. try not to turn over and go to sleep afterwards but, give her a cuddle, tell her she is beautiful. During sex, tell her why she is sexy, skin/smell/ softness. be a little poetic. all this comes with practice so, get practicing.
don't go down the porn mag route as, this really wont help you or her. be her 'waiter' for the evening, black boxers, black bow tie. surprise her.
let us know how it goes! not too much detail though, some things are worth keeping to yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-31 22:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first step in having great sex is being able to talk to her about it. If this is hard for you to do, start with something easier. An example would be to start telling her everything you love about her. Next move into what you find sexy about her. Tell her that you love making her happy in bed and you want her to tell you or show you what will make her feel good.
This will start the conversation.
If it is truly about technique, you could check out the sex ed videos at bettersex.com. Great sex is really about the connection not just the technique.
2007-05-31 09:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stamina is a key. Slow at times, rough at times but keep going till she can't stay still and can't keep her mouth shut. Do it like 3 or 4 times in a night. 2 or 3 hours
2007-05-31 08:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by Atlanta29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will get the best answer from your wife, instead of asking us lot what you wife likes, how should we no it a personal thing and everybody is different.
2007-06-01 01:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lou Paget does really good stuff.
I recommend the following books:
How to give her Absolute Pleasure
The Big O
In the mean time give her a back rub with Mid-nite (order it online); it's a massage oil that once rubbed on and you breath on it, it gives a slight burning effect. Pretty erotic I've heard.
Good luck.
2007-05-31 08:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women cannot orgasm with intercourse, but orgasm everytime with stimulus to their clitoris.
Have you thought about asking her what she enjoys when she masturbates, or going along to an ann summers shop? These shops are no longer for the sexually strange or wierd...loads of normal married people use them, and then you can explore each other.
Good luck!
2007-05-31 08:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. I would try different things and ask her. Something that is very stimulating to me - is being kissed on the inner leg prior to oral sex. Some like it rough some don't. Do what she likes. She will be thrilled you want to please her more. I'm sure she'll do the same for you. Oh, and don't make her do things she's not into.
2007-05-31 08:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ann S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes. Start foolin around and ask her do you like this or does this feel better and even change up the pressure &/or rotation and say is this better. You can even ask her to guide you to what she likes and what feels best to her. There are also a lot of womens magazines that have great articles about what women like under the sheets. I use to put these magazines in the bathroom and they taught my ex some great things ; )
2007-05-31 08:18:02 · answer #11 · answered by misbotta 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋