my husband is going to kill him when he gets home I shouldnt of told him but i was drunk and let it slip out over the phone with him while he was not at the house. Holy potatoes what am i gonna do??? I cant put him anywhaere with a nearby friend or anything bc my husband told everyone he could possibly get in contact with OMG OMG OMG Im gonna beat his ******* *** when i get him alone,,,, this is not a joke.............
2007-05-31 07:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Standards & Testing
Your problems are much bigger than this.
But for now, call the police.
Then seek counseling for all of you.
2007-05-31 08:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Philippian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 01:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is worse than the fact that you were sitting at home alone drunk? Or that there seems to be a lot of beating and killing going on at your house? Where are your priorities, woman?
You haven't mentioned how old your son is. I'm assuming he is an adolescent, and kids have a lot of curiosity. Straight boys have always been caught looking at Playboy in the past. Now they have the internet and more options. As for the fact that the porn your son was looking at is gay, rather than killing him, you might want to find out more about him. Is he turned on by this? Has he just heard vague things about homosexuality and wants to learn more? He needs guidance and reassurance, not beating!
Don't just jump to conclusions and react with violence. It only makes things worse. And it is YOUR job to make sure that your husband doesn't do so either. You need to protect your son.
2007-05-31 08:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by neniaf 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would sit my son down when sober to talk with him about it..depending on his age. He may be just curious. And as far as your husband he has issues if he in not at all concerned that his own son maybe struggling with some tough issues of his own."Is he gay or straight ,bi, whatever. He should love him no matter what adolescence is hard on us all. If he is an adult then he is a grown man but while is still living under your roof you have every right to be upset and confront him on an adult level...Approach him in a loving and understanding manner or you could cause permanent damage to him and the relationship you guys had with him....
2007-06-01 09:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is poor kid. So what if he "might" be gay. just because he is looking at "gay" porn doesn't mean he is gay himself. Maybe he is just exploring a little. He's curious. I have a few "gay" friends and they are the best guys in the world. Sounds like DAD needs to lighten up a bit and realize it's not the end of the world. It could be a lot worse in my eyes. What good is beating his ******* *** going to do? I remember when I was a kid, the more my parents didn't want me to do something.....the more I did it. Try talking to your son instead of beating him. Like I said it could be worse!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-31 08:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by 3kids4me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do no longer pawn your toddler off on yet another a sort of classes. All they do is take little ones with habit issues and lead them to worse. i'm no longer totally understanding what the project is with your son. he's sixteen, has ADHD, and looks at pornography. He additionally does properly at college. i'm uncertain of what you propose by performing like a verify. Is he disrespectful? Your toddler has fewer issues than many, and on the 2d, the abuse and ADHD seem the worst, yet you stated he's doing properly at college, so i'm uncertain how else it is manifesting itself. I understand which you're morally adversarial to the textile he's viewing, and he should not be viewing it at his age. besides the incontrovertible fact that, you ought to take a seat and seek advice from him and clarify why it is incorrect, unlawful and adverse fairly than in simple terms locking it away. As a teenager, he is going to adventure a great hormone rush which will supply him urges. He has to appreciate those urges and detect a healthful thank you to channel them. I easily desire he has had some form of intercourse/wellness education as to attend before could be fantastically fruitless. in case you experience he's addicted to pornography, attempt to get him a counselor (which he ought to have considered as quickly as a results of fact the abuse got here approximately), no longer a residential application. you ought to artwork out your subject concerns (that are particularly standard for many families) at the same time, no longer cover them away for somebody else to handle. stable success.
2016-12-12 07:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is missing the bigger picture here. Why is there a discussion about gay porn, alcoholism and family dysfunctions in the Standards & Testing category?
2007-05-31 08:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a serious talk with your son, and you need him to be very honest with you don't try to scare him, let him know its ok to be confused about his sexuality at his young age. Make sure you monitor his online chats because you have to be careful of predators. Good luck
2007-05-31 08:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by boxnndatol22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be a goof....what would you do if your son was looking at heterosexual porn...same, same....you're over reacting. Perhaps it's your drinking problem. That would be more of a problem.
2007-05-31 08:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Grace 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remove the network cable (or modem) from his computer.
2007-05-31 10:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋