To our baby's dedication (Christening). I have tried time and time again to get along with her. She has done some devious things to me. Do you think she wants to come to start something? Should I let her come?
2007-05-31 07:06:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hell to the NO, X is just what it means X.
X's should remain X's. If they have children together, the siblings should come, but not her. It is a day for you and your family and close friends. If she has been mean and devious in the past, then she is no friend of yours. She needs to keep her booty at the home!
2007-05-31 07:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's simply say i would've stated a few choice words to her over the mobilephone. It's stupid of her to propose that proposal. What woman in her correct mind would permit her fiance to spend the night along with his ex spouse? You probably did the proper factor by way of announcing no. Watch out for her though, she appears like difficulty and a real nut.
2016-08-11 14:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your baby's Christening is a special time for both you and your fiance and why would you want someone who has caused problems before to show up. Tell her no in a gracious way... Explain that it is unacceptable for her to come. I actually have a feeling she will invite herself anyhow. So, be sure to tell your fiance to speak with his ex and explain how she will make everyone uncomfortable being there. You don't owe the ex wife a thing. When you snooze you loose and so did she. Tell her sorry but this is a special time for my family and I rather you not come. Thanks though for wanting to share this moment but we are having a small gathering of our closest friends and family.
2007-05-31 07:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should his ex-wife come to a celebration to your baby's dedication? A Christening is not a party for just anyone to come, just those who you want to be a part of your baby's life and celebrate your family. It sounds like she wants to hang on to your fiance and including her in these kinds of things may give her mixed signals. Does your fiance have children with her? If so, it would be important to have those siblings present but she does not need to be involved if you and your fiance are not comfortable with it. Best of luck.
2007-05-31 07:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by ms. ovechkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you invite her? If not, then she isn't coming to see the baby. She might want to patch things up with you, but more than likely she's coming to see your husband and she's using the occasion as an excuse. Maybe she's not over him yet. Can you tell your husband how you feel and have him ask her not to come, perhaps if he doesn't have a good relationship with her? If you don't feel comfortable with that, then plan his day out for him. Keep a lot of people between the two of you and her. Tell your trusted relatives to keep her occupied. Let her watch you kiss each other outside the church and take family pictures.
2007-05-31 07:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance's ex-wife has nothing to do with your baby's dedication (Christening) so if you can't get along with her; let her know that she is not invited. Now, you must express this with your fiance also and make him understand why. Also, if they have a child together; you must try to get along with her but if that is hard to do then do the best you can to stay away from her the best way you can.
It would be different if you two could get along but since you can't then you must try your hardest to stay away from trouble.
2007-05-31 07:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by deniseywalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The baby is no relation to her. You are no relation to her. So the big question is why would she want to go to a christening of a child that was no relationship to her in any way shape or form.
I think she wants to start trouble there and I would say no.
2007-05-31 07:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by mikeae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say no. absolutely not. you tell your fiance you do not want his x wife there. christening is a very private family matter. last thing you want is a devious bitter woman stomping and causing bedlam. speaking from experience. unvited guests are even worse.
2007-05-31 07:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's an X now. What is it she doesn't understand the spelling X or meaning. She lost now get out of the picture. No I would most certainly not have her there. Those are precious
moments to be had by mom and dad and parents any close friends, but certainly not RIVALS. Enjoy
2007-05-31 07:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by kittycat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for the sake of peace you should let your fiance know your concerns, but if he insists then let her come. If she tries to cause a scene remember it will be her who looks a fool- acting up at a special event like that. My best guess is that she doesn't want to cause trouble, but maybe is trying to let bygones be bygones and move on.
2007-05-31 07:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by artist9120 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋