2007-05-31 06:57:39 · 33 answers · asked by Cali654 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all are you sure it's love or just lust, a lot of people get those 2 things switched around. How does she feel about him. Does she love him or just a boy toy while her man is gone. This is a serious thing, If they both love each other seriously then she needs to stop doing all this and get a divorce right now and stop playing games and after its final then be with your friend. If she doesn't want a divorce there's your answer. No divorce let him be the mature one and get out of that relationship. He will always be her second choice hubby is always first choice. Speaking of hubby wait till he finds out or catches your friend. Tell him there are so many woman out there to choose from that are single.
2007-05-31 07:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by markus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. She's made her choice. Tell him to stay away. I know the pain of having a marriage split apart. Marriage is hard enough without the influence of someone in there trying to mess things up.
If this question is really about you and someone's in love with you while you're married, my advice is the same. There's too much heart ache involved here. Just move on and don't do anything stupid.
2007-05-31 07:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he needs to stay away from the married woman. If he truly loves her then he'll think that the most important thing is for her to be happy. If she isn't happy in her marriage, he still needs to hold off until the marriage is over. It is never good for a third person to interfere in a marriage.
2007-05-31 07:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by **Angel** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will listen.... advise him to "move on" and forget her. If he is coming on to her and she is finding it difficult to ignore his advances... then he is tempting her and placing undue stress on her marriage. Not fair to her.
She is married.... and married should mean "out of bounds" to him. Inform him that there are countless younf ladies out there that are not married and available. He would not be ruining a marriage in courting any of them. Plus, the road to romance is a lot less difficult and thus more pleasurable with a girl who doesn't have to sneak around her husband to see your friend.
2007-05-31 07:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes run in the other direction and find an unmarried woman to love...it will only cause him pain and heartache if he pursues anything with her while she is married.
2007-05-31 07:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey how are you? My opinion on this situation your friend should live this girl alone because people couldd seriously coul get hurt Ive met people that have gone to jell or got killed is not worth it because if it was met to be they would have been together.
2007-05-31 07:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by foxy_sexy_lesbian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well get him a t-shirt with a target painted on it because the husband will come hunting for him. Ask him why is he afraid of available women.
2007-05-31 07:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know love is complicated but he needs to move on and find a girl that loves him back. He needs to find out if that girl feels the same way if she doesnt then he needs to give up bc she has moved on. there are plenty of girls out there for him.
2007-05-31 07:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Hayley H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell him to get a single woman not a married woman or else he's going to hell...there are literally billions of women in this world who are single why is he going for the married one...bull sh!t
2007-05-31 07:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, don't get shot! He should leave her be. She is a married woman. Only end up hurting way too many people.
2007-05-31 07:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Selvaggio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋