Husband a perv? Please let me know your opinions?

Question

I have noticed that when he looks at porn sites, and I have noticed
its always teen this and teen that. He is 35 yrs old, and we have 3 daughters. He also is a general manager at a resturant that employs mostly teenage females. opinions, and what to do?

Answer 1

my husband will be thirty next year and he looks at the same sites. i don't think i would like it he was looking at older women, i don't want him to be attracted to the sag if you get what i mean. wouldn't you want to look at a man with all his hair on his head and his back... it makes since he's not a perv he's a man.

Answer 2

Your husbands a perv. There are men that can only see a female with the head between his legs, and mind you not all men are like that. They are a form of a sexually predator, one that does not act on it, just frenzies himself with the gawking and steering and glaring. Just a perv, tell him to knock it off, have some respect for you and for himself, and not fall into being a dirty old man with no class.

Answer 3

That's terrible. And you approve of that? It's one thing to not be bothered by him looking at porn, in that your confident of your own body. But if it becomes an addiction, then he needs help. My standard in marriage was that if a couple is doing it together to get turned on, it's fine. But if he's doing it by himself for his own perverted pleasure, then it's wrong. And it's especially wrong if it's teenage girls. You need to talk to him about it and see if he thinks it's a problem too. He may admit it. If he doesn't think it's a problem, then naturally, he's laugh at the prospect of counseling.

Answer 4

I don't know if it's necessarily "perverted" to be attracted to young women. I'm guessing the "teens" he's looking at are not pre-adolescents - they are probably young women of quite childbearing age. If he lived 100 years ago (or in a different culture), he could have married a girl of 15-16, and it would not have been considered improper. I just don't think that in and of itself it's something to be worried about. However, if he's preoccupied with it to the point where you think he might get himself in trouble, you need to voice your concerns.

Answer 5

That's just plain sick. Go see a professional counsellor for some advice here - you could be putting your children in danger, and he's just a menace to society's girls. Very scary and scared for you!
Actually, him looking at/downloading/sharing teen porn is illegal. You could always turn him in...

Answer 6

I think that men are genetically programed to mate with as many hot, young females as possible. It's a matter of keeping the species alive.

Answer 7

Keep an eye on the situation, but don't freak out unless the sites he's going to are illegal. People have been busted for stuff like that before.

If it really bothers you, talk to him about his obsession, and how it makes you feel. He may not realize how it's making him look. To him it may just be porn...

Answer 8

From a guy's point of view....There is an age limit. Kids are kids. It doesn't matter if they are 7 or 17. In my opinion, yeah, there is a concerning issue there that needs to be addressed. Keep an eye one him.

Answer 9

Yeah he's a perv I would call the cops he probably has messed around with some little girl. How sad

Answer 10

the man has a problem that is only going to get worse,,,if hasn't already!!! a grown man with children looking at porn sites with kids!!!,,,turn is butt in to the local police!!

Answer 11

loose weight and shave your pubes. he might mistake you for a teen and ditch the porn sites. keep a watchful eye on your daughters cuz the dude sounds like a ticking time bomb