Ok, I'm 18 years old, so there's alot of stuff going on. I like girls, and have had girlfriends in the past. I plan to get married to a girl, etc. However, one of my friends (who's gay) really wants to massage my feet and such, and I don't have a problem with that. I can't see myself kissing another guy or having sex with another guy, but I wouldn't mind if he gave me a massage or something. What does this mean? Am I gay, bi, curious, or straight? I can't see myself kissing or having sex with another guy, but I wouldn't mind if he massaged me or something. What does this mean?
2007-05-31 04:47:19 · 15 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
none of the above, now i hope that you are happy? for wantin
g to spread your business like this.
2007-05-31 04:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bi-curious, I say. I don't think you know if you will be straight/bi/gay until you actually try being them. I'm a 16 y/o girl, and I find a lot of these things you've said apply to me, too (I find some girls hot, have wondered/fantasized, but never actually done anything). I think there are quite a lot of people our age are bi-curious at the moment, as internet/TV has kind of influenced it. I can't really tell you what to do, as I have no idea what to do about it myself, really. I'm just going to take things as they come, I'm not a type of person to just put myself out there and bare my feelings. But don't let that discourage you. Maybe talk with your friend more about this kind of stuff, like how he feels about gay/bi people? Whatever you decide to do, good luck :)
2016-05-17 21:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really mean anything. A massage most of the time is somewhat asexual, or even nonsexual. Now if he gives you a massage, and meanwhile you are imagining yourself having sex with him, that may be a sign you are gay or bi. Otherwise, getting a massage from a guy, does not make you gay or bi.
2007-05-31 04:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me as though you are a straight man who is comfortable with yourself and others.
2007-05-31 05:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not gay.Your straight you just like massages thats all.
2007-05-31 04:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.patrickstump 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This just means your comfortable with your sexuality. Be happy because more people should be the same!
2007-05-31 05:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by ilovehair234 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is all a grey area really, but you sound predominantly straight.
2007-05-31 04:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r ok, just dont go too far with this massage situation...
2007-05-31 05:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked this question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap0xMI6..RdZYVpo.cUunXPsy6IX?qid=20070530133155AAq2B8Y&show=7#profile-info-zmucDy1Caa
What's the matter - the 27 answers you got not good enough for you?
2007-05-31 04:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're just a straight man who's not homophobic. :)
2007-05-31 04:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jasumi 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋