This guy had a prince albert at the gym in the shower. I couldn't help but stare. He looked at me a winked. I didn't know what to do so I winked back. Now we have a date for dinner tonight, am I gay. I just thought the piercing was wierd, now what do I do.
2007-05-31 04:32:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
haha! eyes up in the shower first off, second you are lucky that he only winked at you if he was straight he probably would have punched you. If you aren't gay, why are you going on a date with another guy?
2007-05-31 04:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jyse 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HaHaHa!! I could see winking after being caught staring (out nervousness) but why would you agree to a dinner with the guy right after that if you don't fly that way.
Tell him (after he foots the bill) that you were just curious about the piercing the other day as you had never seen one before in person.
Apologize for the mixed message. Thank him for the dinner and walk away.
2007-05-31 12:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by InkBlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your something. it takes a lot to agree to dinner and exchange numbers and stuff. at any time you could of said that you just thought his PA was just kind of cool or something. even if i am gay having a guy ask me out would make me crap right there in the shower! i would prob. regret not saying yes perhaps but doubt i would have said it. i would talk a few times with him first and tell him you have never been out with a dude or something and you are not sure why you said yes. if you like the conversation then heck go out to a safe place with him. All this said if you guys are about the same age. no way i would go out with someone older me by too much. later in my life perhaps. well doubt you are that old if you don't even know how you got in this situation.
2007-05-31 13:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't know what to do? So you made a dinner date tonight? I can understand the "stare" at seeing a PA for the first time ... but "dinner".
Oh yes ... you are on your way. Before there is a definitive answer . . . at least from me . . . let me know what happened on and after "dinner." But I have my "hunch" already.
But for the record, let's just say you are "gay-curious". No problem ...you are what y ou are. Just don't lie about who you are.
2007-05-31 11:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could have cleared up the misunderstanding when he asked you to dinner I suppose. However, now you have to tell him that you are not gay, but just stare at ***** with unusual piercings.
2007-05-31 12:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys don't agree to go to dinner dates with other guys. It was pretty normal to stare at his mutilaton. (whoopps.. I forgot to be PC)...his piercing. So go on the date if you want. Obviously you lack insight into your own motivation, so avoid drinking and bring lube-- becasue if he wants to screw, you will go along with it. No point in buying condoms-- they wont work with a prince albert.
2007-05-31 11:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went from winking to arranging dinner for tonight !!Something tells me that eating isn't the only thing on his mind! Do you fancy him? Don't lead him on if you don't as that is unfair. Don't go if you are unsure.
2007-05-31 11:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Muffin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful he is not setting you up for a gay bashing! If you arent gay why did you say yes to dinner? You must be....
2007-05-31 12:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Nurse Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you get a photo taken and work out a good answer when you kids find that picture 15 years from now.
2007-05-31 11:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by wizebloke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are gay if you go back to his place after dinner and fool around
2007-05-31 12:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋