Every year my husband and I and all our friends plus about 50 other people go on a canoe float that lasts all weekend. This year I am not going, because I am 27 weeks pregnant and there is going to be too many drunk people and potential accidents, not to mention the fact that I can't get in and out of a canoe without assistance and would be uncomfortable anyways. My husband informed me the other day that he was going to go without me. Now keep in mind that all my friends are going to be gone on this trip and my mom, dad, and siblings are in Cleveland for a month. So I am going to be all by myself all weekend. My husband thinks I am being selfish in being upset with him for going without me and leaving me alone. Am I? What in the hell am I going to do for 3 days alone?
2007-05-31 04:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*No, you aren't being selfish...I would feel a little left out too.
.But you have to remember that guys do not think about this type of stuff like women do. Guys think for the moment, and they don't really think about what will come of what they choose to do, they just do it.
.In any case, I think you have a right to be upset, I mean seriously I'm a little worried about you being alone and pregnant all by yourself for 3 days! I mean what if something were to happen to you?
.I don't even know you but it freaks me out that you'll be alone, because anything could happen.
.Ugh...well I guess if he's determined to go, then he's going to go...despite that you're pregnant and you'll be alone. Which I think is very very rude.
....BUT I guess even if you could go, it is probably best that you did not. Simply b/c if you were to have an accident out there, and there is no cell phone towers for signals so you could call for help....oh boy! That could be a disaster.
....So I think you are very smart for staying behind...granted, you don't really have too much of a choice.
Anyways if he does end up going, just make sure you have everything you need. And ask any friends that you know that live close by if you can call them if you need anything at all.
....haha...geez I feel like a mom and I'm NOT, I'm only 21 and I'm single, and I am like all worried about you being home alone!
Well good luck and keep me posted.
2007-05-31 04:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that you will be OK. I don't think that you are being selfish. If you really feel uncomfortable being alone for that long then just talk to your husband. I'm sure he would understand. Three days alone could be a great time for you to relax. You could read, eat ice cream (mmmmmmm), watch movies and talk big bubble baths. Your husband will only be a phone call away. If you are in trouble I'm sure your neighbors will help you out. Good luck I'm sure you will be fine =].
2007-05-31 04:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATS FOR UR 1 CHILD(i think so)
well it is not a very long period just 3 days may be u can read some books or movie ya but at this point everone likes to be pampered. just hang out with someone and i know some will be here. try to find u r very old freinds.and take the doc's advice and just chill out and later show off that u have had more fun in the peace(just joking). i m shore that u will manage.
p.s-dont for get to tell us tht if it is a girl or boy
2007-05-31 04:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Akanksha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 09:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is fair for your husband to leave you alone because you cant attend because you are pregnant. Now, if you just didn't want to go for no good reason I can see him still going but not because of this. I think you have every right to be angry and if I was you I would be concerned about where my husband's priorities are.
2007-05-31 05:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by eeyore9939 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On the one hand, it is only three days. I think you will survive. On the other hand, you do need someone there with you in case something happens...just talk to your husband. Maybe you two can make a compromise. Good Luck!
2007-05-31 04:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh 3 days alone! It will be a nice quiet realxing time...
no one to bug you munch down on anything you want to eat..
sleep any however long you want...go shopping....long hot baths w/o anyone bugging you ahhh
2007-05-31 04:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by manda102285 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that some time apart from each other makes a relationship stronger plus it's only for the weekend.
2007-05-31 05:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by skb_leo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could eat ice cream,watch movies,and stay on the internet!LOL! Sorry your getting left behind.
2007-05-31 04:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Taddster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be really upset if that were my husband. But yet....my husband would never do that to me either.
2007-05-31 04:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋