why he have to treasure them
2007-05-31 04:26:13 · 9 answers · asked by LOVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because they are pictures of things that happened in his life, memories, a record of his past, of things that he did in the very short time that he is here on this planet.
The existence of pictures that show what happened in his past has nothing at all to do with his relationship with you. They are simply a record of what happened, in picture form. He may want to look at them again in the future. Maybe he won't. It doesn't matter. They don't affect you or his relationship with you at all.
2007-05-31 04:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ever here the term men are morons in relationship! We have them, its like a trophy to us, we have them in old shoe boxes and well hidden away. Its those ties that is hard to give up. I still have some of my ex's still to this day, but hidden. its a memory keep sake. don't ask why we do. Its like having a picture of a family dog or other things, Men such as your bf and myself, we cling on to them, it doesn't mean we love our g/f less it a memnto and keep sake. It brings found memories as well as all the happiness that was shared, keeps us in tuned, really helps out. In return you get the better of our emotional side as well as the urgency to do better with in a relationship. Just think of it this way, its our learning tool to make a better future with our currently relationship. we men are dumb at times but we know what is important to us, so don't fret, your being loved more ways, cause me your b/f knows what not to do, hence the pictures also tellls us what idiots we may have been and we learn from out mistakes as well as learn what to do to make you happy. We also do new things and venture out alot to, its a comfort zone for us! Smile, don't let it get to you, men's treasure is ignorant and stupid, but its there for a reason. So don't feel bad, just forget about it! and let things ride. but if it bothers you that much talk to him, My g/f just says this to me, you can look all you want, and try, but your not getting anything better than me! Smile ain't that the truth, we men are foolish but don't let it bother you!
2007-05-31 04:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Whip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is in love but maybe he has some sort of connection to them, like it bring s him memmories of the time he was with her or other type of memmories... If he was my boyfriend, I would talk to him and let him know how I felt about him having those pictures.... Tell him it makes you uncomfortable knowing he has those pictures, why does he still keep them and if he has a good explenation, then ask him if he could put them away somewere where it wont bother you anymore. If he truely loves you, he will understand.
Tell him, how would he feel if you kept old pictures of your ex. i don't think he would like it. So there you go, hope this advice helps...
good luck with everything! Take care.
2007-05-31 04:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where he is keeping this photos. Does he have them on his wallet? If he does then, you need to worry about that. If he doesn't then, let it be. Everyone has a past and you need to get over that. You need to show him you trust him, he will like that. However, if you are getting to a point that this is bothering you way too much, then have a conversation with him and ask him calmly why he is still keeping those photos. Good Luck!
2007-05-31 04:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by true love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean he still loves her, you need to stop being so insecure or he will dump you. After all he is with you not her. Guys don't like insecure women, you really need to forget about this issue.
He has them just to remember some of his past, you have things that do the same just they are not photos. When you can get rid of every single thing that has to do with an old boyfriend then you can talk to him about the photos.
2007-05-31 04:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may still have a thing for her. But he may be holding on to them to brag to his buddies about the one that got away (if she was a looker) and nothing more. If it bothers you so much, ask why he keeps them so treasured and it may be he just don't want to throw them away for bragging rights
2007-05-31 04:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because the time that they broke up, he never got over her and you should know that, so he is still in love with her, and he just havent have the time in his life to get over her
2007-05-31 04:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mesha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless they are nude pics, you shouldn't be upset that he has pictures of an ex. That is his past and he can have pictures of his past if he wants.
Like I said, unless its nude photos.
2007-05-31 04:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that he is still love that girl..maybe he just want to keep it as a memory..don't think negative..he is still love you..and how about if you ask him..why he still have the picture..
2007-05-31 04:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by nadred 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋