I absolutely love, love, LOVE going out with my husband and making every guy in the bar/club/wherever lust after me. I wear tiny and/or sheer clothes, nothng underneath, high heels, etc., and move provactivley, even flashing a bit of this and that here and there... I stear clear of children, always make it clear I am with my man, and never allow anyone to touch me. My husband is in heaven. Do guys enjoy this or get pissed off at me being a tease?
2007-05-31 04:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We don't go places where people get in fights like that; we are professional adults, not kids hanging out with drunken frat boys
2007-05-31 04:16:17 · update #1
BrChDa - I really enjoy it most when the person can't figure out if I am doing it on purpose or not...
2007-05-31 05:24:17 · update #2
Wayward - I know you are trying to be smooth, but you really come across as a creep.
2007-05-31 05:33:53 · update #3
hm, well if you enjoy it and it's good for your relationship, why worry what the others think? I would think a man would only be angry if you weren't open about being with your man and came onto them, and then said oops I'm married sorry. If you are only flashing them and are obviously with your man, they are probably just enjoying the show.
2007-05-31 04:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jill S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While this may seem fun to you, this kind of behavior is eventually lead to problems. When people are drunk at a bar/club and some hot girl starts "teasing" them some guys may refuse to take no for an answer. This will put your man in a situation where he has to fight one or more people. I have seen a few guys get beaten nearly to death in these situations. Is that what you want? I suggest to tone it down a bit or at least make sure you only pull this kind of thing a high end place where there aren't as many thugs in the house.
Edit - I'm not talking about frat boys. You tease a drunk man enough and you will end up in trouble. I don't care if he is a CEO or a trash man. Woman like you tend to cause more problems then you are worth. Are you really so insecure about yourself that you need to constantly bring attention to yourself? In most cases the guys that you are "teasing" are calling you a wh ore and your boyfriend a pu ssy as soon as you turn your back!
2007-05-31 11:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Steve J 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As you can read from the answers thus far... the results are mixed... FROM BOTH SIDES... both women and men can find it repulsive or sexy and adventurous. What it all boils down to is... it depends upon each individual.... it's up to YOU who likes to show it...and it is up to HIM is he likes you showing it.
If you both enjoy the flashing and those that you surprise with your provocative dress and flashing sequences have no problem with it, then so be it! On the other hand, if someone takes offense to some of the other semi-public and public displays that you provide... you could be in some legal hot water. You could get arrested and fined.
If you are more excited and aroused with such displays to the most innocent and almost prudish of people, then you are asking for trouble as it is that type that could resort to having you arrested. Be careful.
If your displays are done discretely and the person enjoying your display is thinking that you are unaware of your "exposure" then to me... that is the epitome of exhibitionism. Something that is viewed when you suspect the person is totally unaware of their bewing "exposed."
If your intent is to "show" and let the person know you are showing it to him or her "on purpose" then the rules of that game are much more ahem... "open." Overt exposures are tantalizing too. It is my estimation that this all depends upon the "lady" and how adept she is at "pulling it off."
As a man.... I for certain am "visual" and I delight in such displays. The more ladylike that I perceive the woman to be... the more interest I have in the display she is providing to me.
Your husband had best be prepared for anything... .as I am certain that some of those men that you "flash" to will think that you want more than kicks from just showing it.
2007-05-31 11:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by BrChDa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are looking for trouble honey, but i bet you can handle it just fine. does it make you feel powerful knowing you got all the guys hard and lusting after you? i like your style. when you are flashing other guys do you think you are making it clear to them you are with your man? what is clear to me is that you would love to get double teamed by your man and some wild young buck like me. The two of us both pleasuring you in every way imaginable. its all about you hot one. i would never get pissed at a woman showing off her femininity. you could never cross the line in my eyes. strut your stuff, and get it while you can. your husband is a lucky man. he's got a wild one, and there ain't nothin better.
2007-05-31 12:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is awesome. Men love to look, even when they are not in the market. Your husband is a very lucky man. Good for you.
2007-05-31 11:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Not being a guy I am not sure. I just hope your man is big enough to take care of things in case they get out of hand. There are alot of twisted sicko's out there these days. Becareful!
2007-05-31 11:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angie D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's okay. But what's going to happen when one of those other guys get mad and goes after your husband or worse goes after you.
2007-05-31 11:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by the_monamayfair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband are okay with what you do then it shouldn't matter what other people think.
2007-05-31 12:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by sportsfanstl1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds good to me. i wish my wife would do this more. i had an ex that was like you. the only thing she added was randomly making out with girls in public too. often times strangers.
2007-05-31 11:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by joe 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
who cares? you are having fun
2007-05-31 11:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋