I'm a sexy woman and have no trouble finding a guy but I'm in love with my boyfriend of 3 years now and in that three years I can count on one hand how many times he's made me come. I can't stand it anymore especially when other guys hit on me all the time and I know I can get it. I don't want to leave my bf just because he doesn't make me come though I feel pretty bad that he doesn't even seem to care about my pleasure once he's fininshed which is entirely too quickly. I ask him all the time and he always says he's too tired or it hurts his tongue or he just doesn't like it. There's nothing wrong with me down there my old boyfriend used to do it constantly. Is it possible to make my boyfriend care about my pleasure too?
2007-05-31 03:36:51 · 17 answers · asked by kaitlyn111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him if he wants anything oral for him, it's going to be 69 for both of you.
2007-05-31 03:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The mood has to be right. Tell him to slow down and take his time. Making love isn't a horse race.He has to explore your entire body, with his hands and tongue . A full body massage is great to relax you. Kisses and a little nibbling goes a long way to pleasure someone. Also tell him what turns you on.
2007-05-31 04:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by LeRoy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kaitlyn, darling... sorry but he is not going to change. If you have ask him and begged him and he comes up with these lazy *** excuses then it ain't happen girlfriend. Sorry but it's the truth. I don't know why some men are like this cause I happen to think it's the next best thing to, to, hmm, ok I think it is the best damn thing out there. I love doing it. Sorry Hon...
2007-05-31 03:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Selvaggio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ashame that your boyfriend is so selfish. He should care more and want to please you. I know you don't want to leave him, but it doesn't sound like he is going to change, if he has been this way for 3 years! You have to decide if you are willing to settle for this, or if you need more.
2007-05-31 03:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Angie D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to make it fun. Use food etc. Also try to stimulate yourself before so by the time you are ready to have sex you both can come at the same time. You can also use sex toys.
2007-05-31 03:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-09 04:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that exact same problem also and it bugged the hell outta me...he had said that he didnt like goin down and it was makin me think sumthin is wrong with me...what u need to dun go down on him...let him see how it feels...believe me, he will start to feel bad and he will eventually start doin it to u cuz he isnt gettin it...
2007-05-31 04:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turst me... it won't change. We cannot change people. If he won't... he won't. That's the way it will always be and not amount of your "persuasion" will change it.
his tongue *hurts???* that's lame... and should tell you everything you need to know.
Get over him and find someone who's got a stronger tongue.
2007-05-31 03:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that if he can't satisfy your needs as a woman, then you can't satisfy his needs as a man. See how long it takes him then. Oh, and make sure that your turn is first...I bet that would do the trick.
2007-05-31 03:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I agree with CRB. Also, pleasure yourself. When he wants sex, say no, that you have taken care of yourself today, so there is no need.
2007-05-31 03:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋