Should I tell?

Question

A woman I know enjoys gossiping about me to the max. This ***** is a maried woman having an affair with a married man. They meet everyday in a local health club. Should a little birdie leave her husband a note?

Answer 1

I would stay out of it. It will catch up with her sooner or later. Let them continue to act like children and don't stoop to their level.

Answer 2

Isn't sharing what you already assume to know a form of gossip in itself for readers such as myself to learn. One is no more justified than the other. If gossip is a problem at a local health club, consider joining a different one, that is more of your chosen taste in recreation. Not everything is what it appears to be, the married woman if you will...may just be a very outgoing and friendly person, it could be your reception of what you see is merely an assumption on your part, and creating a mess when it is totally unnecessary. It could also be other/s are gossiping to you, and blaming her for the gossip, due to nothing more than jealousy of her. Is it possible this woman could actually be a very nice individual, and could turn out to be a great friend if only given the chance. Re-think the whole picture, not just in part. Be careful, of not creating chaos in what could be an innocent thing going on, with her, and a very happy marriage, rather than be one person meddling creating another divorce over what...gossip! How sad that would be, and who then will accept part responsibility there? Maturity and experience, do go hand in hand, that's my opinion, hope it was helpful, have a great day!

Answer 3

Well she is giving you plenty of reasons for you to go out there and tell her husband what's going on. She has not reason to be gossiping about you, but of course you can find all kinds of things out there. I'd say leave him a note and tell him what's going on, or even better, confront her. Tell her that if she doesn't stop you will reveal what she's been up to.

Answer 4

Dude, don't stoop down to her level. Just ignore the b...

Chances are that everyone she talks to knows she is a big liar anyhow, so her gossip about u probably is already ignored...at lease by people smart enough to matter to u.

As for her cheatin on her husband....(and he's probably glad to get rid of her). Don't even get into it man.

Answer 5

I would just make sure she has nothing to gossip about you from now on.

I wouldn't get involved in her whole affair thing, she will be found out eventually. Don't stoop to her level.

Answer 6

As they say don't do to others what you don't want to do unto you.Let Karma be on her...but if you still want to get even with her by that action i suggest you should think what will be the consequences.Let her gossip about as long as you know yourself and what she's talking about is not true at all.

Answer 7

Yes what i would do is if you see them togeather get to know her husband alittle bit and say where they are and let him catch her in the act that should suprise her that way she dont find out it is you her husband wont say that it was you or anyone if he sees her with this man alone<3

Good Luck and do something quick

Answer 8

Usually i would say dont get involved but as she is always talking **** about you and probably others
yes give her a taste of her own medicine

just dont let on that you know about it when the time comes

Answer 9

Revenge will make you happy only for a little while. Let things play out on their own. She can't cheat forever without getting caught or something happening. Don't do it!

Answer 10

You need to be the adult here. If this woman is doing what you say then karma will come back and bite her in the butt. You don't need to lower yourself to her level. Please realize that you are better than that.