Hi i am priya . Tell me how a wife can keep her husband happy in every possible way?

Question

I am 24 year old. i want to give lots of happiness to my husband.how will i know that, what makes him happy? Please help me.

Answer 1

Understand his sentiments. Do not express your problems when he is not in good mood. Love him when he is in romantic mood, don't just ignore him at that moment. If your husband loves their parents make you own nice view about them. If you know he is doing wrong try to resolve issue with love and patients. Do not try to repeat things which your husband does not like. Discuss good times with him which you spent with him.
Start doing these thing, I am sure you will get more ideas as time passes. He will definitely love you always.

Answer 2

Well Priya there is no formulae for this but u can do below mentioned things:

1. Try doing things on ur own without bothering him for petty issues.

2. Surprise him by giving him, gifts, an untimely kiss, blinking eye at him, i.e. flirting with him.

3. Well having sex is one of the important factor, but more important is the way u create the ambiance (i.e. foreplay)before the actual intercourse, as well the after play.

4. Keep telling ur husband that how important he is in ur life.

5. Good food is offcouse necessary to please him.

Well these are the thing that every husband likes, rest u can plan out taking into account ur husbands various behavioural aspects.

Answer 3

Well Its really happy to know that you want to keep your husband happy in all ways.
By your name I believe ur from South India (Even Me).

Here are few of my tips..

1) Understand his likes and dislikes.
2) More than being a Wife, be a good friend of him.
3) Be positive with him in all ways.
4) Listen to what he says don't interrupt, even if he is wrong and later make him understand if he was wrong.
5) A women should be a friend for her husband at the time of trouble, play with him, always try to make him new dishes, tell him often "I love you", and mean it.
6) Be like prostitute with him in bed.
7) Don't ever do what he does not like.
8) Wear the dress often which he likes you to wear.
9) Talk to him often.
10) Also share jokes.
11) If he wants you to be like a girl friend after marriage, be like that - this is what most of our guys want after marriage and this is what they look after marriage.
12) Find out his TASTES.
13) Watch with him his favourite serial, in case he misses the serial tell him the story as what happened when he missed.
14) Keep him in your prayers always.

Hope this Helps..

Do your Best !!

Answer 4

I surveyed my office-mates the same question 2 years ago and i keep on my mind all the answer till i got married among the answers i got in random are the following:

1. Make them feel that they are the most important person in your life

2. Have a good sex

3. Be good (not necessarily the best) in keeping the house clean and in order (meaning cleaning the house, cooking, taking care of the kids)

4. Don't nag

5. Don't ask too much questions (that women knows will hurt them)

6. Stay with a child like attitude.


for me...i ask my husband the same question, his answer is simple...to love him always.

Answer 5

Hi Priya,
Jacky has a point. Dont be in a hurry. In a marriage every day u learn something new about ur spouse. Take ur time.Relax watch him closely. Just a few pointers respect him, make him respect u. Give him space u take ur space too. U dont need advice like this as when days go by u'll learn. Good luck girl

Answer 6

Haven't met a man who thought sex was a bad thing yet. Take him to the Tantric sex and Kama sutra sites. They are a little naughty and very fun, and they contain centuries of knowledge on human intimacy.

Priya, one thing I note regarding our gender, we tend to talk. Way too much. There will be times when he is stressed. Men do a thing I call "Caveman Syndrome". They withdraw into themselves, and tend to become a little grumpy. This is not a time for you to "fix it." Let him work it out without your input. Listen if he talks, agree with his point if it is valid, keep quiet if it is not. And just let him get through it. We tend to want to fix it. They don't want us to fix it. It gives them the impression we don't believe they can handle the situation. He is venting. He wants you to be on his side. He wants you to believe he can, eventually, make a right decision.

Like the other guys said, food counts.

You may want to develop the habit of asking every day if there is anything you can do for him. It sounds trivial, but it indicates you consider him along with all your other responsibilities. It's nice. (My man started this and now it's a habit. Oh, yes, he asks me, too.)


He'll never say it, but he wants your admiration. So you can make an honest comment daily, even if it's just, "Hon, you look great in that shirt." "I really admire how you help your grandmother out." "Babe, no one hangs a picture like you do...." Whatever. Just so it's honest admiration. Feel free to repeat yourself.

I always take a nice, hot shower and try to put on something, shall we say, appealing....and some make up. regardless of what the evening plans are. I just want him to know I respect him enough to not run around in an ugly robe with no makeup when he's home.

I think you two will do just fine. You're obviously an intelligent girl, and your heart is in the right place. Good job.

Answer 7

You will never make him completely happy...that is the nature of men. But I've found a hot meal on the table, a clean house, and lots of intimacy in the bedroom adds to a good relationship. But remember..he should also be doing his best to make you happy too. Helping around the house, with the children, attending to your needs.

Answer 8

Dau'ter, you are destined for heartbreak.
I'm married for last 40 years. Still, when we fight, it will make a sailor blush at the language.
You are an individual, not a doormat. Keep your individuality and love your husband, but do not hesitate to tell when you feel he is wrong.
Keep the reciprocity in the relationship alive. Otherwise, it will not sustain.
Good Luck, Darling.

Answer 9

priya it is never possible to keep a man happy in every respect. though u would try out ur best then too ur husband will not be satisfied with you. it is only possible if and only if ur husband is very much adjustive and loves u so much that he cant see u to work so hard for him. its simple....

Answer 10

respect him. that is the most important thing a wife can give to her husband. be submissive to him and supportive. make him feel attractive and loved. cook for him and always keep yourself looking hott for him. but over everything else, respect him! It seems that marriages these days are not the way God intended marriage to be. The man is The MAN! The woman should not try to imitate his role.