why do there hearts get broken guys it must be really hard to get over some1 you trully thought you loved how do you do it???
my brother had a gf for 9 months then they had to go on a break due to some major familly problems but that gurl was amazing and she studied in my school so i knew her and soon i dint even realize but i got so attached to there relationship and my brother is hurting i can easily tell that and it kills me becasue i know i cant help him or her i always have a soltn but this time i dont what do i do??? i have to get them both together. . ..
2007-05-31 00:57:39 · 1 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey I know it is hard to see your brother in pain. But if it wasn't meant to be it wasnt meant to be. Getting them back together may not be an issue. I am assuming the major family problems were on her end not on yours.
What you can do for your brother is to not let him fall into the trap of "I will never love someone again". That will doom him to a life of utter silence and lonliness.
I have had the pleasure of fallen in love with 3 women. 2 broke my heart. One I married and we have been married now for 30 years.
The best thing you can do right now for him is to stand by him and help him through the rough spots. He is grieving believe it or not for the relationship and treat the way he is acting as just that, grieving.
2007-05-31 01:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋