I’m a student, 27. I have a strong crush on my prof, 47. Part admiration, part sexual, and part “real”. I waited til class ended & confessed via email. I didn’t expect to hook up-yes part of me wants to, but (I hope) I wouldn’t as I have a bf - more of a friend than lover, though.
About 1½ weeks later, I sent him a 2nd email-an apology for expressing my crush. I tried to put his mind at ease (i.e. won’t make harassment accusation) & encourage a response. I was hoping he’d say “it wouldn’t have worked, but don’t feel bad”, “I thought you were hot too, but…”, “if doesn’t work out with your guy, I’ll be here”, etc., but he didn’t care enough about my feelings to reply
I wore my heart on my sleeve & told him (tastefully) I wanted him sexually. Why hasn’t he replied (doesn’t care, thinks I’m lame, etc.)? Lots of chicks like him. He’s not all that to look at but very charming. Maybe he’s just a player & I should forget about him? Should I avoid taking his classes in the future?
2007-05-30 23:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it just wouldn't be appropriate for him to reply. It might not be callousness but might simply be a policy of the university. He might also have been taken by surprise and thought that, by not responding, he would discourage the topic.
2007-05-30 23:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by bastian915 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 09:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by fogleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing how you said lots of "chicks" like him, he might be getting plenty of e-mails like the one you sent. So to him you might be just another young girl that wants him, so he thinks nothing of it. Yes, I'm sure it hurts that he didn't acknowledge it, but he probably has someone else on his mind, and the other thing that I mentioned.
If he is a good professor, I wouldn't advise you to stop taking his classes, just, think of your boyfriend more. I say forget about him.
2007-05-30 23:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just thinks a relationship with a student is a bad idea; and in all honesty you are pretty much bordering on invasive.
Let it go; take the class; forget the proff.
2007-05-30 23:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he got your e-mail? Maybe its a good thing if he didn't. Maybe he is hoping you will drop it. You tried twice now and didn't get a response. You can either ask him to his face if he received them, or you can pretend nothing happened. I suggest the latter.
2007-05-30 23:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel is rite,maybe u should try to hookup, but dont do it by email,email is a very bad way to let someone know u like them, it should be done in person or atleast on the phone.
2007-05-30 23:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Spring time ease 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a gentleman who is not foolish enough to have an affair with a person of 27 who should know better. ~~
2007-05-30 23:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. you wont have anyone to blame
2007-05-30 23:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋