Cant orgasm more than once when making love, help?

Question

My husband and i have great sex, but i can only orgasm once.. any suggestions on how to orgasm more than once....

Answer 1

practise makes perfect. just keep going have lots of foreplay and whey hey! all will be good for you!

Answer 2

hun many women never orgasm so you are very lucky to have a great relationship where you can. i only ever orgasm once during sex and didnt realise there was a problem with it. orgasms arent the be all and end all there are many other ways in which you can be pleasured by your partner without needing the explosion at the end. but if you really do want multiple orgasms(some women just cant though so be aware) try things you never tried before or look in a manual for new things to try you wouldnt have dreamed of. theres some good stuff. have you been able to have multiples by yourself??? if you have then show your husband how you did. if you havent been able to then your hubby wont know how to so the best suggestion is to try as many different exciting new techniques wherever and whenever the urge takes you both.dont get caught though. if you dont manage to have a multiple at least you have lots of fun trying and spiced things up. have loadsa fun babes.xxx good luck

Answer 3

Try to listen to an episode of Love-Line. This is a syndicated radio program and if it is not in your area you listen to it on the web. Dr. Drew answers this question all the time. The basic answer is that some women are multi-orgasmic and others are not. You just might be one of those women who are not multi-orgasmic. He also explains that many women only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. If your husband isn't doing this then just ask him! Good luck.

Answer 4

You need to relax and guide him. There are many women who cannot orgasm with a partner. Unfortunately, that is the reality. I have been with girls who push me out of them and proceed to jerk and squirm around during an orgasm...and I have also had women who don't orgasm at all. I have also been with women who are super wet and leave puddles on my bed, and women who are very dry and need lube every time. I have also been with women how have huge suckable clits that get very hard and sensitive and can orgasm just by playing with that, and I have been with women whose clits are so underdeveloped, they can't even really find them and have a difficult time orgasming with external stimulation... All women are different.

Answer 5

If you start off with him giving you oral sex to get you really in the mood, you could have several orgasms that way first and then when you have full blown sex you should climax again and again till you are shattered!! Good luck!!

Answer 6

i've asked this q many times
i've been with women that have cluster o's
lasting for more than 30 min
and i've know a woman that could only *
by clitoral stimulation
and only once
and one woman that could not at all

but very much the same way that men put themselves down
for shape and size
women need to accept their idiosyncracies

it is intimacy and kindness
that makes sex so f###ing cool

Answer 7

Sorry, but I'm the same. Some women just can't come more than once. There are books out there that supposedly help this problem, but they haven't worked for me.

But I don't find it a problem personally.

Answer 8

Practice Practice Practice....After the first one then take a short break and start all over again only try other things....Different positions or stimulations...Chances are it will happen for you...

Answer 9

It's not your problem, it's your hubby not hitting the right spots but I really don't think intimate detail would be appropiate on here where small children are.

Answer 10

You should think yourself lucky.. lots of women around the world havent even ever had 1!