she missed her first month period, delayed by 15 days now. She does want D'n'C, pls suggest some way out.
2007-05-30 22:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Pearl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yeah, to expand more, I am already 2 sons aged 13 and 6 and donot want further any other issue. We were doing precaustion since my younger son, but donot know last time, precaution failed, we thought, nothing will happen, but now she missed her first month period. Gynec may refer for D&C, she does not want thatr. So if any pills or some other way to get out from her pregancy.
2007-05-30 23:09:36 · update #1
The two of you are obviously not on the same page. If she is pregnant, there is little you can do to change it. If it turns out to be a false alarm, I HIGHLY suggest the two of you discuss what you want to do as far as having children. If she wants them and you don't, this could be a deal breaker for the marriage. If you decide you never want kids it is up to you to get a vasectomy. Steralization is the only way to guarantee you won't reproduce; well, that and abstinence. If you decide kids are for a later date, GET HER ON BIRTH CONTROL AND USE A CONDOM UNTIL THE GIVEN TIME IT BECOMES EFFECTIVE! If by chance she is pregnant, congratulations, your going to be a daddy! There are worse things in the world. Step up to the plate and allow yourself to love this little person YOU have created. Best of wishes.
2007-05-30 22:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your gynecologist further and ask what other methods are available. Check with a second gynecologist as well.
If you need to go the D&C route, make sure you have a prescription for pain pills. I'll assume she will be sore.
Be sure to have her get a tubal ligation or you get a vasectomy so you don't get another scare like this.
2007-05-31 02:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am pregnant myself im only 20 and im not married although i am with the most amasing person in the world you two have more committment than what we do i cant understand why you do not want this little miracle have you any idea of how hard most people try to have a baby??? if you feel like you both cant give this baby all the love and attention that they require then i admit you are thinking on the right tracks but dont destroy this little treasure give it to someone that you know will love it and care for it everyone deserves a chance even if you dont know them yet!!!!! talk to you wife try and make her understand this!
2007-05-30 22:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maximum of my girlfriends and that i, have a seem, yet do no longer touch strategies-set. I do hate it , whilst they stare at yet another guy's crotch with mattress room eyes, or, in the event that they voice an opinion some guy's physique section(many times, they like vast shoulders and tight buns or the smile for some reason).No, i'm no longer small shouldered the two, surprisingly having been a powerlifter at one time.
2016-12-12 07:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think there must be "a way out"? You got yourself into this, In my opinion, I think you should own up to your new coming responsibility....If you're not ready, then I think adoption would be the one and only choice....NOT abortion...it's still a life no matter how small it is....If your wife is pregnant, let her have the baby, and the 3 of you ENJOY life together.....
2007-05-30 22:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since an abortion is out of the question, the only other option at the time is adoption. It`s too late to take any sorts of pills to terminate the pregnancy. What ever your choice is.... make sure you guys use extra protection...
2007-05-30 22:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A D&C is performed after a miscarriage. If you're married, why do you not want the baby?
2007-05-30 22:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can have a medical abortion at this stage its just a couple of pills and some bleeding and pain
2007-05-30 22:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you didn't want a baby now, why didn't you take extra precaution?
2007-05-30 22:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only safe way would be to have an abortion.
2007-05-30 22:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋