Do older men really know more about how to ''handle'' a women?

Question

Do older men really know more about how to ''handle'' a women?
I'm 22 and starting to fantize about doing it with a man in his 30's or 40's in hopes that he would be better at it...since I have learned that the more experience a man has, the better it is for me.

Answer 1

younger men tend to be in a hurry to "get it on" more than to savor the moment. sex is like tasting a fine wine. most older men have learned to enjoy giving and getting pleasure. older men also tend to listen more to what a woman wants. but remember that these kind of guys are harder to find

Answer 2

Generally speaking I would say yes.... experience is a good allie... but I have to sadly admit that the exuberant youthfulness is sometimes missing... and that energy can make a lot of difference. Older men can be a lazy root ~ they might know what they are doing... and for that reason you will be doing a lot of the hard work! ... unless like gazpacho, they have recognised the symptoms of ageing and have consequently been working out in the gym (so pick a fit looking older man)!

BTW Laughingxlady ~I am over forty and twice a day is no challenge.

Answer 3

The reality older man sexual desire does not stop once a man reaches the age of fifty.

Older men probably cannot maintain the same fast and furious pace as they did in their twenties, their life experiences should more than make up for the physical aspect of love making. Older men usually have more control over the physical and mental state of their being and a much greater knowledge of what elicits pleasure for a woman. This "experience factor" grants them the ability of understanding the female body to stimulate and satisfy a woman which in turn should culminate in prolonged sexual stimulation prior to orgasm.

It can be a very exciting surprise for a young woman like you, whose only sexual experience may have been young men of own age. Women often complain that they need more foreplay in their love making and not all of them get it from young men.

Most men after 50 also need some kind of foreplay to achieve an erection. So, they turn this kind of situation into win-win arena for both! For older men, this foreplay can be very exiting as well and helps him to prepare his body for sex. Surprisingly, he can do it much quicker then he can expect, because playing and touching a young woman's body will arouse his ability to perform sex, dramatically

Having said this..you are right to certain extent but the young and the old man have equal share of advantage and disadvantages...

Answer 4

Without a doubt, Shoebettysue. Most young men don't have a clue. An older man is usually not in such a hurry to get his rocks off and has a good idea of what you'd like. This is a generality, of course and there will be young men who will give you what you want as well as older men who won't have a clue.

Answer 5

Yes and no. an older man has experience but is limited by age. so the foreplay will be good, but if you want it every day twice a day, your out of luck. try to stay under 40. 30 year olds are a good choice.

my bf is 27 and i was completely surprised by his tenderness and romance. i was caught completely off guard and am always wowed by his wealth of knowledge added to his stamina.

in my twenties i went through what you are going through, dated older men and i was somewhat pleased by their attention and thoroughness. but after time i found something was missing. excitement and spontaneity, something a man in his forties (at least the ones i knew) had already experienced and neglected that part of sex.

good for you gazpacho, i hope all men will follow your example and keep themselves up!

Answer 6

It would really be more based on sexual activity or if someone can understand the females likes and dislikes during sex.

I guess the majority of older men would know more about it then younger men, but still not all young people are inexperienced and can induce great orgasms :P

Answer 7

With age comes experience. I totally agreee older men can handle things better.

Answer 8

True! Experience is the best teacher. Also, older guys are more considerate and eager to get the woman off

Answer 9

It is not necessary that older men can handle women better or understand women better. You are still young and innocent and there are chances that such men may take undue advantage of your innocence and understanding.

Answer 10

More experienced yes, but older men are not as sexually driven and so maybe not as passionate. When guys get older their hormones settle down.