I've always had a high sex drive, and have been extremely heterosexual. Then it seems within the last couple months,my sex drive for girls has lowered, and I've been questioning if I like men too. Before then, I started having erection problems, much tied to anxiety and self conciousness during sexual play with the female specimen. :) I don't want to be gay, I love girls! but with my sexuality in question, I feel like i can't commit to my girlfriend enough to be sexually confident, and honest and such. So should I experient? How far should I go? Is this a common/natural feeling?
2007-05-30 18:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
(rolling eyes)
Oh yeah. You sound like a real wildcat-meat-stud ... stick to the chicks.
2007-05-30 20:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Just experiment. I have gay friends who think that dating and homosexual relationships are (of all words) gay, but they're totally in it for the sex. Just do it, get it over with. You'll have your answer; you either like it or you don't.
If you're considering experimenting the sex part, do it safely. I suggest finding a really chill gay friend that you TRUST and he'll (most likely) support you all the way. If he himself is gay, he'll know how tough it is and will most likely keep your stuff on the down low. If you've already established that you are attracted to women, you're either straight or you're bi lol.
2007-05-31 03:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who put these evil thoughts in your head?
You see? Society has accepted the homo lifestyle to the point that heterosexual ppl question their sexuality now!
It isn't a born trait,it is a choice!
Having a high sex drive does not give anyone the right to have sex with anyone,as long as they get off.
Sometimes it is a hormonal problem & medical advice is needed,but most of the time it comes from improper thoughts & behaviour.
2007-05-31 02:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by frogginmama52 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
It is completely natural. It has nothing to do with societal pressures or societal acceptance of homosexuality. You should do whatever you feel most comfortable with... There is nothing wrong with trying sex with another man, but make sure your girlfriend knows.
2007-05-31 02:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by ace_of_spayeds 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sexual orientation is not really a choice to make but if your starting to question then its your choice to try it or not.And he's right just do what makes you happy.
2007-05-31 02:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by heat101 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't.... especially considering that 52% of new cases of HIV are homosexuals in the USA.
2007-05-31 15:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that is a very personal question that only you can answer for yourself. You should not be persuaded either way. Only you can figure out what is right for you.
2007-05-31 02:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please become homosexual. You will make my chances with women better. Just stay at least 3 feet away from me at all times.
2007-05-31 02:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by DAVID C 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Just do what makes you happy...
2007-05-31 02:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
sure, experiment. maybe you'll like it.
2007-05-31 18:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋