WHOSE BEEN gay or lesbian?

Question

whose been gay or lesbian and then all of a sudden just stopped being attracted to the same sex for no other reason then you lost the attraction

no outside influences at all like peer pressure family persuasions or religion just plain non attraction all of a sudden and changed your mind



-just had a thought ...these people probably wouldnt even be in this section so maybe i picked the wrong spot for this question-




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no LAST ENT that would be a religious influence .. like i said just pure all of a sudden non attraction and NO other reason

thnx LADY LYNN good to know im not alone ;)

havent decided if i wanted a man again yet ( im one of those that always heard your too pretty to be ....) but i have been doing a lil flirtin again.. something i NEVER thought i would do.. but like you said im letting whatever happen happen

you might just need a taller curvier voluptuous woman.. lol try that first before totally flippin the swtich

Answer 1

You're in the right category, hon. Anyway, I'm a female , and was in a serious gay relationship for four years. I'm not fat at all , but my girlfriend was tiny; like 5"1' and 95 pounds. A few weeks ago we were hugging, and I had a strange desire for a taller, bigger body to be hugging. It was so strange , and it freaked me out. I started crying, and when she asked me why. I told her and then we were both crying. I think she knew that I was wanting a man and not really knowing it myself. She suggested we take a break, which shocked me. But a few days later, my best male friend and I were together, and when we hugged it was like paradise. So now I'm thinking I'm bi or maybe not even gay!! I'm with him now , and feeling so comfortable both physical and emotional. I told her, and she thinks I can't be a lesbian. I guess I'll just let nature take its course.

Answer 2

It's not a matter of change; it's a matter of being happy and being who you are. I have known guys that got married just to appease their family, or had fear of not being accepted. This action caused them to live a miserable life and also caused them to cheat on their wife. It's the same as saying that I want blue eyes instead of brown, so I buy some colored contacts. POOF, I suddenly have blue eyes, but I can't wear them for ever, and when I take them out, guess what.......my eyes are as brown as the day as they were on the day I was born.........It's not a choice, believe me, I have tried.

Answer 3

Nobody that I've ever heard of...as to the answer above..anybody can get married and have children..it's called friction.....but I'd rather not deceive myself about who I really was born to be.
sounds like stephen found a way to make money in his closeted life.

Answer 4

I can't speak from experience, but one hypothesis might suggest that most people who undergo what appears to be a spontaneous conversion of sexual orientation from gay to straight would be more accurately understood to be bisexual.

Many people are bisexual to some degree or another; many gay people have had heterosexual experiences, and many straight people have had homosexual experiences. Maybe some people have a more fluid sexual orientation than most others in the population?

Answer 5

Yeah you might the R&S category.

But here's one for you:

Answer 6

It could happen!!!