is stress and mixed emotion can lead you to commit suicide?

Question

It goes like this since, I worked as a housemaid to my cousin coz i have no idea how to support my studies in college that time.my parents can't afford to go me in college coz of financial trouble.may father lost almost of his earnings to sustained our needs.I was sad that time coz all my classmates in highshool search for schools to admit in college, and me i can't coz of my family problems which i understand, and am not forcing them.So i decide to work as housemaid in my cousin to support my studies in college.while im there working my cousin treat me like machine to do the household chores for 2 yrs w/out pay,but its ok for me coz i was expecting a good things in return for my studies in college.But there are times my cousin always mad at me w/no reasons,i always asked myself is there something w/me?ive done all the choresshe gave me and all the things i ussually done cutting grass in her garden as my rest time,shouting,and sometimes counting things of she gave me.I feel am not good

Answer 1

You should quit that job. It is not appreciated. If you died that would make the problem worse, so why not just quit? Be DONE WITH THAT JOB. Some millionaires didn't even go to highschool. God will take care of you. Do what your heart yearns. What are your talents. Pray to God with all your heart. Read Bhagavad Gita or Jesus words. Cry your eyes out, and pray to God. You can not change the events in your life, but you CAN CHANGE YOUR RESPONSE TO IT.

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Answer 2

Your stress seems much more focused on the situation with you cousin than with financial difficulties. Some of your answers have given advice on both. I don't understand what you mean without pay--how does this help you? Is it for room & board? First, I'd strongly urge you to get a job; being demeaned to the point that you question if something is wrong with you or that you're no good is a very negative environment. Surely you can get a job, even if doing the same things--but NOT for you cousin. Perhaps you could find something that would provide enough income to share rent with one or two others. You have a goal, you've shown you're enterprising, & in your case, I honestly don't think this situation would lead to suicide! There are many (heavy) motivations to commit suicide, & I don't see this in you.

Answer 3

Please don't blame yourself. People can be very impersonal and insensitive, even friends and relatives. That doesn't mean it has anything to do with you. You sound like a very sincere nice person and many times it is the good peole who get walked all over, due to thier meekness or humility. So I just suggest when you can move on to some other situation if possible. You could tell them how you feel but, generally people don't change and it could make them worse towards you. Have you ever tried chanting The Maha Mantra while you work. It makes the mind focus on the highest sound vibration instead of all our problems and all the people who mistreat us. For info go to harekrishnatemple.com Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- tells the purpose and meaning of life which will make one so happy. I am. And I us to mistreated all the time. The chanting will change your life and make you truly happy. Nothing material can.

Answer 4

Let me commend you on your efforts. It is great that you are doing so much to help yourself and be able to go to college. It shows a lot of resolve and courage on your part. Bravo.

Stress and bad emotions can lead one to the thought. But the feelng that things will never get any better and will only get worse is what pushes a person to act on the thought. For you, things will get much better and brighter soon after you graduate from college. So there is no need to even think in that direction.

About your job, if it is putting so much stress then leave that place and take up another job where you will get away from these feelings.

And finally, talk to someone. Family, friends, doctors, suicide hotline and vent out your frustration. If needed get medication. As there is a bright and beautiful future waiting for you.

Answer 5

Your situation is definitely a stress inducer. However, if you are feeling suicidal I would seek professional help, or at least remove yourself from the stressful situation.

I would try to find another job and look into loans and/or government grants for college. If your family cannot afford to put you through college, you will more than likely qualify for financial aid.

Answer 6

Don't kill yourself! There's no reason to do it. This will pass. If your cousin doesn't pay you, you can get a job in someone else's house where you will get a room, food, and also pay, and they will treat you better. You can also get college loans. Keep your eye on the goal. You didn't attend all this college just to die, did you? Your cousin is abusing you, you have other choices.

Answer 7

I think you need to get out of your cousin's house, i know you need the help but there ARE places you can go for help. You're cousin is taking advantage of you. Keep on going with your studies goal, tell your friends to help you, research and talk to people. Suicide is not a solution!

Answer 8

NOTHING should lead you to suicide.

Stress and strong emotions are all part of life and we must deal with them not give up. Divorce yourself from the stressful situation you find yourself imediately and start to deal with your emotions. Time will solve most of them. Common sence goes along way to helping too. One step at a time but start going forward and don't look back.

Answer 9

Those are the exact things that lead you to commit suicide