Please advice wat to do with my situation. She love me , she like him(married guy). She is staying with me.
She say she respect me so she tell me wat is she doing, like going out with him having lunch with him. Can I investigate secretly or just talk straight .
when i ask she always talk nicely ，if i ask further she will angry. I am feeling sad really sad. Sigh
Escaping is not wat i am in mind since i love her most. I admit i am not very good in discussing.She doesnt like i call her much now. SAy i am disturbing.
2007-05-30 16:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Bren C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She wants to keep you as you can offer her stability in the relationship. She also wants to keep the relationship with the married guy because she enjoys it. Looks like she is a selfish person who only considers her own feelings. I bet this married guy doesn't know about you but you know about this guy.
I am surprised that you put up with her nonsense and allow her to carry on like this. I know you love her and rather put up with it than lose her.
Initially she talks nicely but when you asked further she gets angry and now she doesn't like you calling her and say you are disturbing her.
She is an ultimate selfish pig - leave her. You deserve someone better. The married guy is probably playing with her and will eventually leave her.
2007-05-30 17:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Didi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you guys can ride it out in a tri relationship for some time, there will come the day when she will have to choose either you, or her husband. So she might as well decide now and get it over with. If you guys keep on having a secret relationship like this, and her husband finds out, it won't be good. But it really depends on what you really want and think she should have. If you truly want her to be happy in a married life and have a stable relationship with her husband, then don't bother talking to her anymore. If you love her a lot and think that you guys can be happier together, then she needs to tell her husband and get a divorce so that you guys can be together. Whatever you do, you need to do it asap so that everything can be fixed and be the way you want it to be.
2007-05-30 17:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the big question you need to be asking your self. why are
you with someone one that with you, and also seeing someone else that married, , you deserve to be with some
that truly respect you, this women does not know the meaing
of respect. and the fact that she tell you when she with him
is a lot bull crap, to say the least, she is using you, and you
need to kick her to the curb. better yet if you so like him so
much, then he can have her.
2007-05-30 17:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋