Does sex really hurt that bad the first time....?

Question

I wanna know how bad it really hurts. I mean im emotionally ready but I dont know about physically. Oh yeah im 14

Answer 1

Wow, she aged two whole years already tonight (check her profile).

Go to bed, little girl.

Answer 2

You know I posted the same question a 2 days ago. From the responses I got, it depends on the girl. In a women's vagina, she has a piece of skin called the hymen. During intercourse for the first time this piece of skin breaks. It can hurt, sometimes mildly, sometimes extremely, it all depends on the person. Your only 14 and you may think your ready emotionally, but your probably not. Wait till your more mature to handle the responsiblities that comes along with sex. If things go awry, are you willing to handle a baby at that age?

Answer 3

first of all, don t do it!
i did it at 16 and regret it to this day. but i also know what you are thinking when people tell you to not do it....i have been there and remember exactly! well, i dont exactly regret doing it because i was so in love with the guy, but i am 29 and married now, and just wish i waited.
anyway, no it doesnt hurt. at all usually, but if it does its like a teeny pinch, and i mean teeny!
oh, and you arent emotionally ready, either! dont kid yourself. 10 years from now you will know what i am saying, and whats the bad points of waiting??
but there are many bad points of dong it....i hope you can talk o your mother about these things or a trusted lady...good luck

Answer 4

Not if your partner is gentle. However, sex at 14 can be emotionally painful. You might think long and hard before you make a decision that you can't take back. What you have is a gift. Be selective and absolutely sure before you just give it to anyone. For most teen boys, a virgin is a merely a conquest.

Answer 5

Dear you're too young for that. You're not ready physically and emotionally. Asking if it hurts? Yes! it is painful for a first timer.

Answer 6

one question... how do you go from 12 to 14 in 3 minutes???? im confused cuz in ur other post... you said you were 12 and that your mom is dead and that you didnt know how to tell your dad u are having your period... and now you are 14 trying to find out if first sex really hurts... are you really having these problems or are you lying about that too?

Answer 7

for me it was extremely bad it hurt so very very bad i kept thinkin "wow and this is what everyone's always talkin about?" and i dont know you but i dont think that your ready even emotionally cuz there's way more than just sex involved i was 19 and i think i should have waited

Answer 8

I can tell you that you THINK you are emotionally ready for sex at 14, but I promise you aren't.

Answer 9

Imagine about 100 knives stabbing repeatedly into your vagina whether your partner is careful or not. Each thrust will feel as though your dying. It also depends on your pain tolerance. I have a rather high pain tolerance. Someone who has less on a pain tolerance than me would tell you it feels as though your vagina is being ripped from your body. Someone with more pain tolerance than me would tell you it doesn't hurt that badly.

Answer 10

It's different for every girl. Some girls feel extreme pain, some don't. For me, it hurt SO bad. It felt like my insides were being torn out. OUCH. Worst pain I've ever been through. Good luck! :)

Answer 11

lol 12 to 14 in one night! and yes it does hurt, but your are way to young to try it wait till your older!!!!!! 17 at least!