anyone know a way to turn yourself off were you dont want sex since partner dont like it but 3 times a mnth?

Answer 1

no .... some go with Rosie palm if desperate but self discipline is best except to turn it on and off sounds unreasonable I would either refrain completely or demand some more reciprocation
you are lucky to get it that much wait till you are my age over half a century .....slim pickins

Answer 2

I'll answer your question with a question: have you ever seen 4o year old virgin? If not, go rent it, or even better, buy it. You'll see what I mean.
On a serious note, I've always heard to think about baseball to "hold on a little longer" or turn yourself off. Either that or think about something a little more disgusting. Use your imagination.
If all else fails, there is a little thing called masturbation.

Answer 3

I think you should find another partner...3 times a month is not enough. You should never have to turn yourself off. A healthy relationship consists of intimacy.

Answer 4

i dont know thatshard

Answer 5

man do I know what you mean....I take care of myself...