Does a sibling have to let other siblings know before getting Power of attorney over a parent?

Question

sister did not let other siblings know she was getting power of attorney over their mother.

Answer 1

If your mom is not mentally competent to make the decision for herself.....Yes, you must contact your local family court or probate court in your city.

Maybe your sister opted to get Power of Attorney over your mom because she was probably primarily responsible for your mom's well being. (I'm unsure about that but that could be a reason why she chose not to notify you)

I suggest that you go to family or probate court in your city and view the court documents that specify, that she has Power of Attorney....in any event.

If you are going to pursue this make sure you that you let the courts know that you are also actively taking care of your mom as well.

Good Luck

Answer 2

I don't really know but this is a decision that my mother made for herself. My dad died 4 yrs. ago and left her alone. She has three adult children and decided to take care of this decision before something happened to her. I don't really know. That is something I really hate talking about because who wants that responsibility?! The only way I would want it is if the parent had everything in writing stating what they wanted done if they were unable to speak for themselves. That way I could ensure their wishes were being honored. I would HATE to make the decisions for them because I would always worry if I did the right thing.

Answer 3

legally no, but you might want to look at the reasons why you weren't included in the discussion of this decision. My sister and i have BOTH just become power of attorney for our parents.... why wasn't this possible?

Answer 4

no she doesnt have to.as long as your mom is competent to decide its out of your hands.if you feel that your sister is taking advantage of your mom or that she is senile or ill and unable to make that choice get a lawyer.good luck.

Answer 5

i think that should be a family decision