Why is the VAWA (Violence Against Women Act) even on the books? Is it not a clear contradiction to the 14th Amendment, providing EQUAL protection under the law? It seems ridiculous to me that only women can be legally protected from domestic violence, when it's been shown that men and women commit acts of violence at similar rates. If a woman beats a man, throws something, threatens with a weapon, etc. is this not a crime?
If we are truly interested in equality, why not have laws that state NO gender biss? Do we not really care about any man if he is abused, beaten, threaten, assaulted, etc.?
Why is this law allowed to continue to be on the books?
2007-05-30
15:50:12
·
5 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Politics & Government
➔ Law & Ethics
County Mounty, here are SOME sites showing statistics:
http://www.mediaradar.org/media_fact_sheet.php
http://www.fact.on.ca/Info/dom/kelly03.pdf
http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/DomesticViolenceMen.htm
http://wadv.org/maleabuse.htm
2007-05-30
16:49:55 ·
update #1
Greencoke, no, it does not say that the same thing committed against a man is not a crime, but the law is titled "Violence Against Women Act" and basically assumes that only men perpetrate domestic violence. I know from personal experience that when a man tries to get a restraining order (my ex broke furniture, a lamp, threw a plate of food at the wall when didn't eat the food, threatened to cut my penis off, etc. etc. etc.) and basically was laughed at and told the threat was not imminent. (I guess my ex needed to bring the knife to the courtroom for it to be imminent)
Men don't report abuse for several reasons, one being that we are not taken seriously, we are ostricized, the situation gets turned around and we are thrown in jail for defending ourselves, the list goes on.
2007-05-30
16:56:07 ·
update #2
cantcu, yes, women get charged every day, but not nearly as often, regardless of who is at fault. Also, why shouldn't abused me be allowed into a shelter? Yet another bit of proof that men are treated differently. The act is called VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ACT. I believe the word WOMEN is gender specific. Correct me if I am wrong. Who cares how long the act goes back to? It's worded incorrectly (though I doubt they will correct it, Rinarot) and provides for unequal treatment. I am NOT stating by any means that women are NOT abused, but just that they are not the only ones, and this law gives special treatment to one part of the population while excluding another.
greencoke, women make up a majority of the REPORTED victims. Slight difference.
2007-05-30
17:04:19 ·
update #3
CountyMounty, another fact associated with VAWA is that women use it as a means to obtaining custody during a divorce. Since the man is thrown in jail immediately, regardless of evidence, and a temporary restraining order is issued, the man can no longer go near his children, sometimes on the street with just the clothes on his back, with NO shelter to go to, etc. Once the divorce comes to final hearing, the woman can win custody stating continuity, since the children were with her while the father (still never proven guilty) was in jail, or obeying the protective order. Some divorce attorneys actually instruct the women to do this, and are never prosecuted for the false report.
2007-05-30
17:10:38 ·
update #4